Gof5's I Hate Desi Chics Thread

[GOTFIVEONIT]

Originally Posted by PhDGirl

Got5, Abraham Lincoln freed the slaves!

I think you're looking at this the wrong way. The marital relationship is not a business transaction. Having a minimum income or education requirement doesn't mean that a girl is willing to marry ANYONE who meets that salary/has that education. It's not like girls go on the auction block.

i know i have come off as harsh and rude before, but i was simply trying to make a point here. it seems to me that the people getting angry, are people who support the class-based nonsense divisions that south asian people have. They are called culturalists and will do anything to fight to keep the status qou. you know kinda like how the kaffirs did to our holy prophet? or the kaffirs did to prophet ibrahim when he challenged thier society and ways of thinking?

since your being civil with me, im only going to address you and not the other clowns trying to talk trash by harrassing me. now you are saying that marriage isnt a business transaction, and it shouldnt be, but how can you say that, when everyone starts making demands over money, education jobs etc. on both the guys and the girls. also why is there is a double standard here, when girls are allowed to complain about their treatment in the marriage market, but we are not allowed to complain about the girls? It just seem's to me that marriage is a business transaction. they marry us for green cards, or for wealth, status etc. if this wasnt the case, then why do so many indian/pakistani guys end up acting like show off's over how much money they have, or what job they are working at etc? Why do so many gurls chase after guys simply because of his profession? See I didnt want to go down that route, like all the other guys who have, but i cant fight this backward thinking. I think ill also go out and buy a used lexus with high mileage on it and show off too. It doesnt take much to impress some girls. And I have literally seen this as an auction, where many times, many girls just simply go with the guy who puts in the highest bid. thats why im very cynical about it all, why get angry and upset with me for describing a reality that exists? im simply trying to explain myself here, cuz im done trying to make my points, obviously its lost upon everyone else.

let me ask you this much. if i wasnt an american with greenback dollars, would all those girls back india, run after me, chase after me they way most do whenever an n.r.i. shows up there? See i say many crazy things, i do many stoopid things, because i know i dont have to worry about acting like 'mr.shareef'. i have seen so many drunk alchohlic, bar hopping, club hopping guys, get married to some of the hottest women around, all because they had the money to back it up. no one gave a dam about thier past, and believe me im nowhere near thier level. so what does that tell me then? money talks, b.s. walks.

[infamousbrown]

Originally Posted by Bruinrab

But he's like the energizer bunny...he never goes down.

That's what she said.

[ShotgunMessiah]

Originally Posted by GOTFIVEONIT

since your being civil with me, im only going to address you and not the other clowns trying to talk trash by harrassing me. now you are saying that marriage isnt a business transaction, and it shouldnt be, but how can you say that, when everyone starts making demands over money, education jobs etc. on both the guys and the girls. also why is there is a double standard here, when girls are allowed to complain about their treatment in the marriage market, but we are not allowed to complain about the girls? It just seem's to me that marriage is a business transaction. they marry us for green cards, or for wealth, status etc. if this wasnt the case, then why do so many indian/pakistani guys end up acting like show off's over how much money they have, or what job they are working at etc? Why do so many gurls chase after guys simply because of his profession? See I didnt want to go down that route, like all the other guys who have, but i cant fight this backward thinking. I think ill also go out and buy a used lexus with high mileage on it and show off too. It doesnt take much to impress some girls. And I have literally seen this as an auction, where many times, many girls just simply go with the guy who puts in the highest bid. thats why im very cynical about it all, why get angry and upset with me for describing a reality that exists? im simply trying to explain myself here, cuz im done trying to make my points, obviously its lost upon everyone else.

Of course you're allowed to make your own demands. Men just have different requirements than women. Why would they be the same? If a man is expecting to be the sole provider in a marriage, why would he have any income requirements or put up any financial "bidding" as you put it? He's got different things he wants, and if she doesn't meet them he really shouldn't marry her.

Originally Posted by GOTFIVEONIT

let me ask you this much. if i wasnt an american with greenback dollars, would all those girls back india, run after me, chase after me they way most do whenever an n.r.i. shows up there? See i say many crazy things, i do many stoopid things, because i know i dont have to worry about acting like 'mr.shareef'. i have seen so many drunk alchohlic, bar hopping, club hopping guys, get married to some of the hottest women around, all because they had the money to back it up. no one gave a dam about thier past, and believe me im nowhere near thier level. so what does that tell me then? money talks, b.s. walks.

The US dollar kind of sucks right now. If they like Americans, they must go freaking nuts for Brits.

But it's certainly true that "money talks, b.s. walks" if that's the type of girl you're looking for. Good girls may be fewer and farther between these days, particularly in the places you seem to be hanging out. But becoming one of "them" isn't exactly helping your case, since the way you come across isn't really as one of the "good guys" with that type of behavior. You can't expect to find a "good girl" if you're not looking in the right places.

[sixpakistan]

Originally Posted by Budmano786

I know that he's provocative and invites a lot of negative attention because of his posts, but I'm very dissapointed in the way gotfiveonit is treated on this board. I'm not trying to take his side because he may very well respond to this post and chew me out...infact, he he has openly said something offensive to me in the past (something about my uncle, if I remember correctly...if I'm wrong, then forgive me!) but knowing how he is, I thought it was pointless to respond to him. We don't know what types of pasts people have had that cause them to be the way they are. I think its obvious that gotfiveonit has had some unfortunate events happen in his life (with girls, marriage, work, etc.) and it doesn't hurt to have a little bit of sympathy.

I honestly feel bad for him and think the way he is ridiculed on Islamica does not help his condition. Its one thing to disagree with his posts or call him out or selectively get mad at individual posts, but for those of us who have seen him on this board for a while now...he's obviously not changing. Its better for all of us that we not go overboard in our anger/sarcasm/harshness when we address him. And sorry if I sounded self-righteous here because I know I've probably been guilty of this in the past among other things. But I've actually been wanting to say this for a while now. Lastly, take this for what its worth...but Allah (swt) accepts the dua of those who are wronged/oppressed. Thats a scary thought.

I tried to be nice to GOTFIVEONIT a long time ago. Spoke to him on AIM a few years back (as he keeps bringing up) & even defended him a few times. Other members here can attest to that - GOTFIVE himself has gone on about how I used to talk to him on AIM.

Honestly, the guy is beyond help. He's vulgar, ignorant, obscene, and frankly, dirt stupid. He's made his own bed and spends his life whining about how he has to lie in it.

Suffer fools like that gladly, and you'll wind up spending a lot of time around fools.

I do think it's pointless to give him any attention, as he clearly loves it - probably not the kind of attention myself or say infamousbrown give him, so much as the females who go on and on with the (extremely tired) gold digger jokes. (I do avoid addressing him most of the time as it is, and I've suggested in the past that other people do the same). I'm also sort of amazed that anyone tries to discuss ideas with or debate him on any serious level whatsoever, as if they haven't caught on it's futile by now. I think all of that just encourages him. *shrug*

Maybe his life sucks. That doesn't excuse or mitigate his behavior. A lot of people's lives suck. Some of the nicest, most worthwhile people I know - on Islamica, even - lead lives that are much worse than Gotfive's, at least in terms of superficial aspects. Speaking of which, don't you think your post is a bit condescending toward him? He's a 32 year old man. Not a troubled 15 year old.

Anyway, I think everyone here from either perspective can agree that the best solution would be to just put him on ignore..