[sally]

yup...this is kind of hilariously sad actually. i bet a lot of people are cracking up. i laughed too. a little

so um i guess no results unless someones willing to throw away $19.99

[sally]

personally i think it's over/is a dead end pretty much. yeah teh results will be saved on there, but paying for them would be LAME as hell. also, i dont think the site is trustworthy/secure for payments AT ALL

booo!

[Asvi]

wow, that sucks .. A LOT!

maybe we can do another one

[silvermalaikah]

DramaRani said:

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.

One of my parents friends' daughters passed away. She was only 9 years old. She was born with a heart condition. This summer her family went to Pakistan for her brother's wedding. Aunty and uncle were reluctant to take her, but she said that she wanted to go for the event. In the past, she never wanted to go to Pakistan - she'd say "What if something happened to me while I was there?" Anyway, she was coming back with her dad when she got really ill. She passed away in a German hospital. SubhanAllah. I can't even imagine what her family is feeling. Her brother just got married and another cousin of her's also got his nikkah done while in Pakistan. Her mother and the rest of her family is still in Pakistan. They are trying to come back. Uncle is bringing her body back in the next day or so.

May Allah Swt forgive the sins she committed knowingly and unknowingly. May she be accepted into Jannat-ul-Firdose. May Allah grant her family peace during this most difficult of times .

inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un.

her family must be going through a lot. many duas for them iA.

[SugarB]

sally said:

personally i think it's over/is a dead end pretty much. yeah teh results will be saved on there, but paying for them would be LAME as hell. also, i dont think the site is trustworthy/secure for payments AT ALL

booo!

Ill take it as a sign...considering all the drama the survey casued.

[afrakabob]

DramaRani said:

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.
One of my parents friends' daughters passed away. She was only 9 years old. She was born with a heart condition. This summer her family went to Pakistan for her brother's wedding. Aunty and uncle were reluctant to take her, but she said that she wanted to go for the event. In the past, she never wanted to go to Pakistan - she'd say "What if something happened to me while I was there?" Anyway, she was coming back with her dad when she got really ill. She passed away in a German hospital. SubhanAllah. I can't even imagine what her family is feeling. Her brother just got married and another cousin of her's also got his nikkah done while in Pakistan. Her mother and the rest of her family is still in Pakistan. They are trying to come back. Uncle is bringing her body back in the next day or so
May Allah Swt forgive the sins she committed knowingly and unknowingly. May she be accepted into Jannat-ul-Firdose. May Allah grant her family peace during this most difficult of times .

inna lilahi wa inna ilayhi raaje'oun. it makes me so sad when something like this happens to a young child

[Asvi]

silvermalaikah said:

inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un.

her family must be going through a lot. many duas for them iA.

ameen.

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my heart is pounding hard, i dont want something that i think will happen to happen. noooooooo... not this soon... and i feel a lil guilty but i dont care, cuz i have a right to my freedom, damn it. why am i a nice person? damn it! maybe 6 months, or if i'm lucky maybe a year. am i being selfish? i asked Allah (swt) today, but i dont know what he thinks.. wow i'm scared.

[zakk]

DramaRani said:

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.

One of my parents friends' daughters passed away. She was only 9 years old. She was born with a heart condition. This summer her family went to Pakistan for her brother's wedding. Aunty and uncle were reluctant to take her, but she said that she wanted to go for the event. In the past, she never wanted to go to Pakistan - she'd say "What if something happened to me while I was there?" Anyway, she was coming back with her dad when she got really ill. She passed away in a German hospital. SubhanAllah. I can't even imagine what her family is feeling. Her brother just got married and another cousin of her's also got his nikkah done while in Pakistan. Her mother and the rest of her family is still in Pakistan. They are trying to come back. Uncle is bringing her body back in the next day or so.

May Allah Swt forgive the sins she committed knowingly and unknowingly. May she be accepted into Jannat-ul-Firdose. May Allah grant her family peace during this most difficult of times .

inna lillahi wa ina elaihi rajioon.

[HijabiPrincezz]

afifa: inna lillahi wa inna illayhee raajioun. may Allah grant her family the patience and grant her jannah. ameeen.

thats really very sad to hear something liek that happening to a little 9 year old child.

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so my mom bought the Neutrogena Wave a few days ago and i finally got to use it this morning cause when my mom used it i saw her skin looked awesomee mA! and dude, it feels amaazinnnggg, my skin feels so soft and niiiceee mA! and it looks good too mashallah mashallah!

[sumi]

HijabiPrincezz said:

afifa: inna lillahi wa inna illayhee raajioun. may Allah grant her family the patience and grant her jannah. ameeen.

thats really very sad to hear something liek that happening to a little 9 year old child.

ameen... i'm so sorry to hear this fifa..

[fatima]

im sorry to hear that fifa. inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oun

ameen to the duaas

[heba]

feefs

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LOL @ the awards...this sucks!!

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[nunyobeezwax]

inna lilahi wa inna ilaihi raji'oon

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Sometimes people get you down, everybody fights and lies and can be so unfriendly. Then you meet one person who restores your faith in the human race subhanAllah. I went to the IL state fair today for the first time in like 5 years. They had a WWII exhibit and my mom and I were casually looking at it when one of the guys in charge (dressed like a WWII soldier) came up to us and asked "are you muslim?" When I said yes, he said "salaam alaikum!" almost perfectly! He told us that he was in Afghanistan for a long time and loved the people and wished he could have stayed and done more. We talked about it for a while and he asked how I find people's reactions here with my hijab etc. He was an awesome guy, I wish more people were like him...may Allah guide him, ameen

[moonlightrose]

thats so sad, DR. subhanallah, she was so young. Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.
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does anyone know what "non-bovine" gelatin is? i looked it up, and it basically means not from a cow source.

soo...it could be from pig gelatin?

thanks

[Timbit]

DramaRani said:

May Allah Swt forgive the sins she committed knowingly and unknowingly.

She was 9, no? Most 9-year-olds aren't baaligh.

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon though. May Allah give her family sabr during this trying time.

[amina9183]

DramaRani said:

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.

One of my parents friends' daughters passed away. She was only 9 years old. She was born with a heart condition. This summer her family went to Pakistan for her brother's wedding. Aunty and uncle were reluctant to take her, but she said that she wanted to go for the event. In the past, she never wanted to go to Pakistan - she'd say "What if something happened to me while I was there?" Anyway, she was coming back with her dad when she got really ill. She passed away in a German hospital. SubhanAllah. I can't even imagine what her family is feeling. Her brother just got married and another cousin of her's also got his nikkah done while in Pakistan. Her mother and the rest of her family is still in Pakistan. They are trying to come back. Uncle is bringing her body back in the next day or so.

May Allah Swt forgive the sins she committed knowingly and unknowingly. May she be accepted into Jannat-ul-Firdose. May Allah grant her family peace during this most difficult of times .

inna lillah wa inna ilayhi ra'jioon

insha Allah both she and her parents/family get the highest level in Jannah. I cant imagine how hard that is to deal with. Subhanallah...there's always reminders around us when we(meaning ME, amina) are whining about stupid stuff--somebody else is going through MUCH worse.

[nunyobeezwax]

ameen to all the dua's

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I was supposed to be in bed a while ago but I can't sleep. I keep thinking about this...

I mentioned before in here that my sister stopped wearing hijab. Over time I've gotten used to it etc etc, no big deal. Now it's the hot topic of the century for our small community. In the bigger picture I think, let them talk...I've had those people gossip about me before too. The thing is though, my sister can't even go to Jumu'ah prayer without getting glared at by everybody, especially the desi aunty clique....they already exclude my mom because she's a convert, now this?! When I went to Jumu'ah last week they were all so sweet to me and basically shunning my sister. I wanted to punch them. We've been suspecting stuff going on but it was confirmed today when my sister saw a mutual Muslimah friend of ours who revealed a bit, but not much because her mother is clearly in on the rumor-spreading.

Basically when I was younger and started practicing around age 15/16 I became involved in the community doing various things. So now I guess the talk is "gasp! how did her sister go so wrong?" Ugh. She removed hijab, she's not dressing like a sl.ut or standing on a street corner, she is still the same person! Besides, why are all these old people discussing the life of an 18 year old? When I was 16/17 they were spreading rumors that I was involved with some 27 year old guy; it was the "scandal" of the masjid and I didn't even know about these lies until much after the fact. Some desi aunties can be the most evil and vicious people on earth, I hate them

[amina9183]

thejellymill said:

ameen to all the dua's

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I was supposed to be in bed a while ago but I can't sleep. I keep thinking about this...

I mentioned before in here that my sister stopped wearing hijab. Over time I've gotten used to it etc etc, no big deal. Now it's the hot topic of the century for our small community. In the bigger picture I think, let them talk...I've had those people gossip about me before too. The thing is though, my sister can't even go to Jumu'ah prayer without getting glared at by everybody, especially the desi aunty clique....they already exclude my mom because she's a convert, now this?! When I went to Jumu'ah last week they were all so sweet to me and basically shunning my sister. I wanted to punch them. My sister saw a mutual Muslimah friend of ours who revealed a bit, but not much because her mother is clearly in on the rumor-spreading.

Basically when I was younger and started practicing around age 15/16 I became involved in the community doing various things. I didn't know til later but was apparently the coveted "catch" for all the aunties...now that I look back I do remember lots of aunties talking to me discreetly about their sons, nephews and such. So now I guess the talk is "gasp! how did her sister go so wrong?" Ugh. She removed hijab, she's not dressing like a sl.ut or standing on a street corner, she is still the same person! Besides, why are all these old people discussing the life of an 18 year old? When I was 16/17 they were spreading rumors that I was involved with some 27 year old guy; it was the "scandal" of the masjid and I didn't even know about these lies until much after the fact. Most desi aunties can be the most evil and vicious people on earth, I hate them

yeah they are. but dont let them get to you. when i first started wearing hijab, people made such a big deal over it. I would be the ONLY hijabi in the room and they would start talking about how *all* hijabis are "corrupt" (tell me what thats supposed to mean!) No matter what you do, people will talk. If you start hijab, they'll talk...if you take it off, they'll talk. And sadly, the first thing people attack on a girl is her character. But whatever...it doesnt matter, because time proves them wrong. This world will always find something to gossip about. Trust me..people will always find something to complain about, and insha Allah your sister puts hijab back on, but in the meantime, just make dua for the aunties, and dont let them get to you.

[khadeeja29]

DramaRani said:

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon.

One of my parents friends' daughters passed away. She was only 9 years old. She was born with a heart condition. This summer her family went to Pakistan for her brother's wedding. Aunty and uncle were reluctant to take her, but she said that she wanted to go for the event. In the past, she never wanted to go to Pakistan - she'd say "What if something happened to me while I was there?" Anyway, she was coming back with her dad when she got really ill. She passed away in a German hospital. SubhanAllah. I can't even imagine what her family is feeling. Her brother just got married and another cousin of her's also got his nikkah done while in Pakistan. Her mother and the rest of her family is still in Pakistan. They are trying to come back. Uncle is bringing her body back in the next day or so.

May Allah Swt forgive the sins she committed knowingly and unknowingly. May she be accepted into Jannat-ul-Firdose. May Allah grant her family peace during this most difficult of times .

Inna lillahi wa inna elaihi rajiun. i can't imagine what her family is going. children should never die before their parents:(

[UmmUmayr]

Ina lillah wa ina ilayhi raji'oun