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07-22-2008, 10:10 PM
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Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
Credit for the word "nojabi" goes to an article I read a few years back.
So what do you think about this guy's approach?
YouTube - Missing Hijab 2 & The Jew (revised)
YouTube - Eid Adha & the Missing Hijab
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07-22-2008, 10:26 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
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really, really, really dumb.
we've been told to approach people with hikmah.
What this guy was doing, was just awkward, and in the 2nd video he was leading her on to get the answer he wanted.
lame. 
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
yeah that was lame.
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
Agreed. Someone I know of thought that because hijab is fardh, then what this guy was doing was completely legit because he had to "command the good" and correct the sister.
I was just wanted to know if anyone shared this opinion.
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Umar ibn Khattab (ra): Yes, indeed.
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Ubay ibn Kaab (ra): That is taqwa.
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07-22-2008, 10:46 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
This is hilarious...did they ask about the jewish burka ?  |
07-22-2008, 10:55 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
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Agreed. Someone I know of thought that because hijab is fardh, then what this guy was doing was completely legit because he had to "command the good" and correct the sister.
I was just wanted to know if anyone shared this opinion.
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I think it's fard, but at the same time I disagree with his approach.
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07-22-2008, 10:58 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
I'm with IbnMardiyah on this one,
The intention behind this may be good (only Allah swt knows) but the approach is ridiculous. Browbeating.....excessive sarcasm, and rudeness will not lead anyone to the truth.
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Agreed. Someone I know of thought that because hijab is fardh, then what this guy was doing was completely legit because he had to "command the good" and correct the sister.
I was just wanted to know if anyone shared this opinion.
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Nah not really because we are told explicitly to argue wisely in a manner that is beautiful. "Command the good and forbid the evil etc" has implications that go above and beyond what was displayed in the videos.
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07-22-2008, 10:59 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
Even Imam Jaysh will not approve of this. This is just wrong.
EDIT: Wow, he's really baiting her. This is terrible.
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07-22-2008, 11:04 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
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Even Imam Jaysh will not approve of this. This is just wrong.
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Agreed. Even Tablighis are better than this. Both videos were awful and in poor taste. |
07-22-2008, 11:04 PM
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
Oh and just to reiterate to what DD mentioned, I have absolute confidence in the bro's good intentions.
Its just that he went about it all wrong. I mean for God's sake, its EID!! You don't put someone on the spot like that on Eid ... like WTH ... poor girl, probably messed up the rest of her day.
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
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Oh and just to reiterate to what DD mentioned, I have absolute confidence in the bro's good intentions.
Its just that he went about it all wrong. I mean for God's sake, its EID!! You don't put someone on the spot like that on Eid ... like WTH ... poor girl, probably messed up the rest of her day.
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Not only that, but what if the girl becomes more religious later in life...this video is humiliating her. That's just messed up. |
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
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I mean for God's sake, its EID!! You don't put someone on the spot like that on Eid ... like WTH ... poor girl, probably messed up the rest of her day.
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He should have asked her whether she fasted...prayed taraweeh...and what about zakat sister ?  |
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Oh and just to reiterate to what DD mentioned, I have absolute confidence in the bro's good intentions.
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I don't care. I would give him a beat down. |
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Re: Giving giving naseeha to 'nojabis'
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I don't care. I would give him a beat down.
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 oh you handsome mutawwa, you.
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I don't care. I would give him a beat down.
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Then she'd like totally fall in love with you, marry you and take care of your buffalo.
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