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Originally Posted by Jaysh
Honestly, this is the most convincing argument I've ever come up with on Islamica.
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Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakathuhu,
Dear friend..! dont name this as
arguement, call this as
Discussion.
because i read the below article in a web site, which was really interesting:
(ofcourse this is not connected with current topic, still i would like to share..!)
Arguments can be avoided and a lot of heartache prevented by being a little careful. The best way to win an argument is to avoid it.
An argument is one thing you will never win. If you win, you lose; if you lose, you lose.
If you win an argument but lose a good job, customer, friend or marriage, what kind of victory is it? Pretty empty. Arguments result from inflated ego.
Arguing is like fighting a losing battle. Even if one wins, the cost may be more than the victory is worth. Emotional battles leave a residual ill will even if you win.
If one wants to accomplish great things in life, one has to practice maturity. Maturity means not getting entangled in unimportant things and petty arguments.
• An argument throws heat; a discussion throws light
• One stems from ego and a closed mind whereas the other comes from an open mind.
• An argument is an exchange of ignorance whereas a discussion is an exchange of knowledge
• An argument is an expression of temper whereas a discussion is an expression of logic.
• An argument tries to prove who is right whereas a discussion tries to prove what is right.
A narrow mind and a big mouth usually lead to pointless arguments.
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Allahumma inna nas'aluk ilman naafi'aa..! Wa amalan soliha..!
Allahumma a'inni ala tilavathil quraan, wa zikrika, wa shukrika, wa husni ibadatik..!
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