[A_Muminah]

As-Salaamu 'Alaykum,

Originally Posted by tinkerbell

your face is gay.

lol, Im a female. I dont take any offense.

Im amazed at how quickly peoples buttons are pushed.

Was-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuh.

[tinkerbell]

Originally Posted by A_Muminah

As-Salaamu 'Alaykum,


lol, Im a female. I dont take any offense.

Im amazed at how quickly peoples buttons are pushed.

Was-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuh.

oh word? thats cool. ohh snap ohh snapp. thats awesome.

[wheelworks]

Originally Posted by A_Muminah

As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah,

Did islamica ever possess haya?

All I can say is that if Islamica reflects the general state of our Ummah, then the outlook isn't very sunny out there in the horizon

[Musashi]

Asallamu 'alaikum wa rahmatulLahi wa barakatuh

Yeah, it's been bugging me for a while. Sure, it's mostly the humor that liked hayah, but dang, can we be a bit more modest, pleeeease? EDIT: lacked, not liked. Wow, what a coincidence. xD;

I'm having a hard time imagining burqa wearing hijabis parking their keester on the computer chair and ing over guys or making inappropriate jokes.

It's hurting my brain.

And I actually go out of my way to try and act a bit more modest than usual when I'm around other Muslims so I don't offend, then I find them like this.

I do hope not all Muslims are this... relaxed? o.o;

And now I feel like an extremist. ;-; Happy?

[Macaca]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

It's also dead.

As is Islamica in general, since late 2004.

RIP Islamica

[Macaca]

Originally Posted by Musashi

Asallamu 'alaikum wa rahmatulLahi wa barakatuh

Yeah, it's been bugging me for a while. Sure, it's mostly the humor that liked hayah, but dang, can we be a bit more modest, pleeeease? EDIT: lacked, not liked. Wow, what a coincidence. xD;

I'm having a hard time imagining burqa wearing hijabis parking their keester on the computer chair and ing over guys or making inappropriate jokes.

It's hurting my brain.

And I actually go out of my way to try and act a bit more modest than usual when I'm around other Muslims so I don't offend, then I find them like this.

I do hope not all Muslims are this... relaxed? o.o;

And now I feel like an extremist. ;-; Happy?

Why don't you and James (Kojiro) stop trying to steal Pikachu?!!
You have Meowth.

[Musashi]

Nyasu (Meowth) already was with the boss before he was stuck with us.
The boss didn't want him neither, he's useless. >P

Pikachu could, I dunno, power his TV and stuff for him for free or... something.

<Yes, I just had to play along.>

[Khairan]

Originally Posted by Jamroll

No, sorry that's my day off. But Santa covers for me on that day - I can get you his number if you like.

The real question is...

Who has the bigger belly?

[psychoteddybear]

Originally Posted by A_Muminah

As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah,

Did islamica ever possess haya?

I think thats why people tend to stick around here (some practically sleep and live on Islamica and have posted on almost every thread). Its more care-free and people are allowed to 'speak their minds' here so there doesnt need to be any haya.

Allaahu 'Alaam.

Was-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuh.

so what does that say about you sister? isn't your opinion "free speech" as well?

i love judgemental people...

it's really no one's concern if someone has haya or not. if they made a comment or thread you deem inappropriate, politely but discreetly tell them and let it go. it will be in their hands then to decide how to move forward.

quite simply, we cannot change people so easily...especially through the internet (most of the time).

anyways, there are people who really piss me off here, but what can you do. that's life...

wa salam

[A_Muminah]

As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah,

Originally Posted by psychoteddybear

so what does that say about you sister? isn't your opinion "free speech" as well?

i love judgemental people...

it's really no one's concern if someone has haya or not. if they made a comment or thread you deem inappropriate, politely but discreetly tell them and let it go. it will be in their hands then to decide how to move forward.

quite simply, we cannot change people so easily...especially through the internet (most of the time).

anyways, there are people who really piss me off here, but what can you do. that's life...

wa salam

You totally missed my point.

What I meant by being able to speak one's mind is that, unlike many other forums that promote one sect or methodology, Islamica allows for all. But its just a handful of people who take advantage of that and use their free-speech inappropriately.

BTW - Thanks for not judging

Was-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah

[psychoteddybear]

Originally Posted by A_Muminah

As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah,


You totally missed my point.

What I meant by being able to speak one's mind is that, unlike many other forums that promote one sect or methodology, Islamica allows for all. But its just a handful of people who take advantage of that and use their free-speech inappropriately.

BTW - Thanks for not judging

Was-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah

I don't believe I missed the point at all.

And if this free for all attitude bothers you, sister, then why bother dealing with Islamica? Clearly, you like this website otherwise it wouldn't be a point of interest for you to come and post. I have whined about the quality going downhill too, but I enjoy the threads for the most part (especially political and religious ones), and can overlook the crap that is in other places.

My point here is that nothing is perfect. This forum perhaps might be a perfect example of our world. You've got the riffraff, the ultra-conservative, and people in the middle, among other things. It's just the way it is.

I suppose I was turned off by the haughty tone of your post. So I apologize for the tone of mine.

Wa aleykum assalam

[wheelworks]

Originally Posted by psychoteddybear

...it's really no one's concern if someone has haya or not...

Thats the wrong attitude yo...

Having no Haya in public has negative effects on people. Soon they start tolerating it and then eventually consider it normal and there goes your deen out the bay window...

So then what then?

[tinkerbell]

[quote=wheelworks;10423]

Originally Posted by psychoteddybear

...it's really no one's concern if someone has haya or not.../QUOTE]

Thats the wrong attitude yo...

Having no Haya in public has negative effects on people. Soon they start tolerating it and then eventually consider it normal and there goes your deen out the bay window...

So then what then?

no, she saying you should mind your own damn business.

[wheelworks]

Originally Posted by tinkerbell

no, she saying you should mind your own damn business.

Oh but I am...

[tinkerbell]

Originally Posted by wheelworks

Oh but I am...

obviously you're not if you're worried about someone else's haya.