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Lets not forget men are drawn to having multiple partners on a instinctual level for better chances of procreation. Containing the nafs is no cake walk, and it would be nice for it to be appreciated rather than expected.
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Lets not forget men are drawn to having multiple partners on a instinctual level for better chances of procreation. Containing the nafs is no cake walk, and it would be nice for it to be appreciated rather than expected.
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What do you want, a medal?! You male chauvinist!!!
A medal would be nice, maybe an award? I would settle for dinner every night, I am a fair guy
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JamMastaFunk: Men have become weak. They have no real function. They serve no real purpose.

Since the dawn of mankind, men have oppressed women. To this day, women are still treated unequally and oppressed world wide. Yes, even in the West. However, tides are changing course. Today men are no longer necessities and sooner than later men will become obsolete. Women are able to hold their own now. Even when it comes to becoming a mother- several articles have been published about the rising percentage of single mothers getting Artificial Insemination. It's said that sperm while frozen can last indefinitely. Do you realize how significant that is?

If you ask me, I think it's irony at its finest. The same group of humans that they have oppressed from the getgo will eventually overpower them, forcing them into extinction.

Ain't that a *****.


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JamMastaFunk: Men have become weak. They have no real function. They serve no real purpose.

Since the dawn of mankind, men have oppressed women. To this day, women are still treated unequally and oppressed world wide. Yes, even in the West. However, tides are changing course. Today men are no longer necessities and sooner than later men will become obsolete. Women are able to hold their own now. Even when it comes to becoming a mother- several articles have been published about the rising percentage of single mothers getting Artificial Insemination. It's said that sperm while frozen can last indefinitely. Do you realize how significant that is?

If you ask me, I think it's irony at its finest. The same group of humans that they have oppressed from the getgo will eventually overpower them, forcing them into extinction.

Ain't that a *****.


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That's what I'm saying. Men and women - we're being driven further and further away from each other. 'Tis very sad.
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JHammer: That's what I'm saying. Men and women - we're being driven further and further away from each other. 'Tis very sad.

Yeah but your fix for it is exactly what drove the bridge to collapse in the first place. Women stay home tend to the family, men go out into the real world. It's not going to work. I think it is too out of control to try to now patch it up. I know I'll sound mean, I'm sorry, but the male gender had this coming to them. You reap what you sow.


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No. I think what leaves me with the feeling is more to do with the guys who tell the girls to 'shut it' because it's their divinely sanctioned right to do so. It's almost the smug feeling coming off of them that irks me. Probably the fact that I can't find the right words to articulate it has as much to do with it.
well yes..it's unfortunate that people are like that. but again you've got to seperate your emotions from it. how people make you feel about what is okay shouldn't really result in your feeling disheartened with the entire concept altogether. if every american muslim took michael savage to heart, we'd be doomed.

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borderline? I would say its highly inappropriate...if I were being SERIOUS...it was a joke...maybe next time I'll add a smiley
yes... maybe. don't take this personally but your attempts at comedy suck. your sister is better off paying someone for wedding entertainment

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esp ones like jaysh who act all big and are softies really and are putty in their beloved's hands.
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JamMastaFunk: Men have become weak. They have no real function. They serve no real purpose.

Since the dawn of mankind, men have oppressed women. To this day, women are still treated unequally and oppressed world wide. Yes, even in the West. However, tides are changing course. Today men are no longer necessities and sooner than later men will become obsolete. Women are able to hold their own now. Even when it comes to becoming a mother- several articles have been published about the rising percentage of single mothers getting Artificial Insemination. It's said that sperm while frozen can last indefinitely. Do you realize how significant that is?

If you ask me, I think it's irony at its finest. The same group of humans that they have oppressed from the getgo will eventually overpower them, forcing them into extinction.

Ain't that a *****.


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honestly..why did you get married?

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JHammer: That's what I'm saying. Men and women - we're being driven further and further away from each other. 'Tis very sad.

Yeah but your fix for it is exactly what drove the bridge to collapse in the first place. Women stay home tend to the family, men go out into the real world. It's not going to work. I think it is too out of control to try to now patch it up. I know I'll sound mean, I'm sorry, but the male gender had this coming to them. You reap what you sow.


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you're making a ridiculous generalization. does this apply to your father, brothers, husband, your unborn sons?

i'm personally offended by the two posts above on the behalf of all the great men out there.

where are you guys? stand up for yourselves
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men are stupid.
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i'm personally offended by the two posts above on the behalf of all the great men out there.

where are you guys? stand up for yourselves
men are wimps.
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and they're gay too.
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men are stupid.
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and they're gay too.
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and they're gay too.
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where are you guys? stand up for yourselves
like 90% of the posts on this forum, it's too stupid to be bothered with
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