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Old 09-10-2007, 05:59 AM
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You clearly don't because you just defended them and made a few yourself. I see from your above post that you apparently have no idea that you even did this. Well, here you go:



I have no idea why Muslims think that just calling themself "muslim" makes them a "chosen people" who have the right to lord moral superiority over everyone else. In the end, calling oneself a "muslim" is just a conceit, nothing more. It doesn't make your average person a better person, and I'll wager that the people who actually *are* superior don't go around telling everyone else so. Calling yourself a muslim certainly doesn't bring you any closer to God, and there is no way for any mortal to know how much closer they are to God than another human being.

It never ceases to amaze how easy it is for people to recognize the nastiness of cultural or ethnic supremacism in others, and how difficult it is for them to care when their own people are committing it.
Before I attack this..

I have to ask, are you muslim???
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Whateva, all white girls be gettin it
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Before I attack this..

I have to ask, are you muslim???
Um, does it matter?
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This thread is full of contradictions
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This thread is full of Hadith. Hadith is full of contradictions.

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Um, does it matter?
Yes it does, because what you said has nothing to do what I posted.

If your are muslim I would've brought up Al-Mustaqim.

If you are not, then I would refer to Shahada.

And because if you are muslim that last post was kinda out there...

I want to know If I should come to you as a brother.

Or as 'One of the chosen people of God'.
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As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah

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salam,

This thread is full of Hadith. Hadith is full of contradictions.

Thread + Hadith = Contradictions
You are a true fitnah-starter. I hope you get your punishment or that Allaah guides you and forgives you.

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Yes it does, because what you said has nothing to do what I posted.

If your are muslim I would've brought up Al-Mustaqim.

If you are not, then I would refer to Shahada.

And because if you are muslim that last post was kinda out there...

I want to know If I should come to you as a brother.

Or as 'One of the chosen people of God'.
Yes, inshallah I am a Muslim.
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Inshallah?

Okay, you do know of Al-Mustaqim correct?
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Old 09-12-2007, 07:18 AM
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Inshallah?

Okay, you do know of Al-Mustaqim correct?
I do indeed.
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Yay Ramadan is here everyone. Sooooo I thought this would be a fitting end to a topic that caused a lot of people to act in a most undignified manner. Not that I'm anymore dignified than ya'll... but Ramadan is here and what not...

Sooooo

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Good.

I cannot believe how some of the young Muslimahs have spoken here.

No wonder Muslim parents nowadays are worried about raising their kids in the West.
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As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah,


I never said anything in regards to that. Please refrain from referring to me as 'stupid' again.

Was-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuh
right. do you hear it enough in the real world?
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I have no idea why Muslims think that just calling themself "muslim" makes them a "chosen people" who have the right to lord moral superiority over everyone else. In the end, calling oneself a "muslim" is just a conceit, nothing more. It doesn't make your average person a better person, and I'll wager that the people who actually *are* superior don't go around telling everyone else so. Calling yourself a muslim certainly doesn't bring you any closer to God, and there is no way for any mortal to know how much closer they are to God than another human being.

It never ceases to amaze how easy it is for people to recognize the nastiness of cultural or ethnic supremacism in others, and how difficult it is for them to care when their own people are committing it.
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You clearly don't because you just defended them and made a few yourself. I see from your above post that you apparently have no idea that you even did this. Well, here you go:



I have no idea why Muslims think that just calling themself "muslim" makes them a "chosen people" who have the right to lord moral superiority over everyone else. In the end, calling oneself a "muslim" is just a conceit, nothing more. It doesn't make your average person a better person, and I'll wager that the people who actually *are* superior don't go around telling everyone else so. Calling yourself a muslim certainly doesn't bring you any closer to God, and there is no way for any mortal to know how much closer they are to God than another human being.

It never ceases to amaze how easy it is for people to recognize the nastiness of cultural or ethnic supremacism in others, and how difficult it is for them to care when their own people are committing it.
Well said. I think integrity is a universal virtue but unfortunately there aint enough of it to go around.
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I do indeed.
Okay so now lets back track!


I have no idea why Muslims think that just calling themself "muslim" makes them a "chosen people" who have the right to lord moral superiority over everyone else.


Moral Superiority is null and void.
The point was they have different morals.

Her being Muslim id est Submitter[to Allah(SWT)]
Him being a KFR id est Disbeliever[Not a muslim]


In the end, calling oneself a "muslim" is just a conceit, nothing more.


How so? How would proclaiming yourself a submitter to the will of god make you conceited?

Wouldn't doing this and shahada do nothing more than increase taqwa and make you a better muslim?

It doesn't make your average person a better person,

As a revert I'd have to disagree....
Islam has made me a better person, in my own eyes of course...
As a human being I lack the ability to think like others.

and I'll wager that the people who actually *are* superior don't go around tellin