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Re: Experts say abstinence program doesn't work
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given the fact that the educational videos we had to watch in high school were made in the Victorian Era; this comes as little surprise.
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your comment reminds me of the movie The Girl Next Door, with elisha cuthabert. The guy decides to make a more modern updated sex ed movie to be sold to high schools across america. |
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Re: Experts say abstinence program doesn't work
What about those Chastity Balls? Where the girls swear their virginity to their fathers or some sort of craziness like that? 
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What about those Chastity Balls? Where the girls swear their virginity to their fathers or some sort of craziness like that?
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that's so creepy.
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What about those Chastity Balls? Where the girls swear their virginity to their fathers or some sort of craziness like that?
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Are those different from chastity belts? |
04-25-2008, 05:33 AM
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Are those different from chastity belts?
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*tries to imagine literal chastity balls*  
Yes, a chastity ball is an event, like a prom, where girls attend with their fathers and at some point in the evening pledge to keep their virginity until marriage. A chastity belt is a device worn to ensure that outcome.
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That's really interesting... too bad guys didn't do the same thing. If the fathers were smart, they would have because it would make the girls less likely to break that oath. |
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Your post is confusing. They judged the rate of teen sex by the STD rate, since the only way to get an STD is by... well... having sex. I went to public High School, and I can tell you that if you just ask teens about their sexual activity, they will lie and tell you they aren't doing anything (well, they lie to adults, not to their peers).
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The outcomes of the interventions that were studied were teenage pregnancy and incidence of STDs (i've read studies that didnt include the teen pregnancy portion).
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Oh. Yeah, I didn't read the article, guess I should have.
Although the guys lying one way would probably counterbalance the girls lying the other way. :P |
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Re: Experts say abstinence program doesn't work
assalamau alaykum
no really?!
we dont have such compaigns in the uk as far as i know. We're a tad more realistic.
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The Prophet's (sallahu alayhi wa sallam) abstinence program was far better. You need imaan first to conquer your desires 
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And to think, people are getting PAID to do these studies!!!
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A low cost and effective solution is to administer 100 lashes and exile fornicators.
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A low cost and effective solution is to administer 100 lashes and exile fornicators.
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Exile me to Sweden....please |
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Re: Experts say abstinence program doesn't work
My favourite word of all time that I learned from Islamica is....
"Fornicatress"
it cracks me up every time.
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Exile me to Sweden....please
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fanatics are idoits. would they advocate the same lashes if it was their own female relatives in question? i really doubt it. |
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fanatics are idoits. would they advocate the same lashes if it was their own female relatives in question? i really doubt it.
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My favourite word of all time that I learned from Islamica is....
"Fornicatress"
it cracks me up every time.
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Haha does the word not exist or something? Microsoft word always highlights the word...is it a made up Islamic word? |
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