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Adopted son finds birth mom at his workplace - Muskegon Chronicle - MLive.com

For years, Steve Flaig, a delivery truck driver at the Lowe's store on Plainfield Avenue, had searched for his birth mother.

He found her working the cash register at the front of the store.

For several months, he and Christine Tallady had known each other casually as co-workers. Last Friday they met for the first time as mother and son.

"I have a complete family now, all my kids," said Tallady, who has two younger children. "It's a perfect time of year. It's the best Christmas present ever."

For Flaig, it was the reunion he had dreamed of for much of his 22 years. He had always known he was adopted, and his parents, Pat and Lois Flaig, who raised him since his birth, supported his decision to search for his birth mother.

It was a tough decision for Tallady, unmarried at the time, to give him up when he was born on Oct. 5, 1985, but "I wasn't ready to be a mother," she said.

She left the adoption record open, figuring he might want to contact her someday, and she often thought of him, particularly on his birthday. But life went on. She got married, had two more kids.

Four years ago, when Flaig turned 18, he asked DA Blodgett for Children, the agency that arranged his adoption, for his background information. A couple of months later, it came, including his birth mother's name.

He searched the Internet for her address and came up empty. In October, around the time of his 22nd birthday, he took out the paperwork from DA Blodgett and realized he had been spelling his mother's surname wrong as "Talladay." He typed "Tallady" into a search engine and came up with an address on West River Drive less than a mile from the Lowe's store.

He mentioned it to his boss, and she said, "You mean Chris Tallady, who works here?" He was stunned.

"I was like, there's no possible way," he said. "It's just such a bizarre situation."

He had been working at Lowe's for two years. She was hired in April as head cashier.

Over the past two months, "I would walk by her, look at her from a distance, not knowing how to approach her," Flaig said. "You don't come stocked with information on how to deal with this."

It would seem tactless to walk up and say, "Hi, I'm Steve, your son." What if she rejected him?

Last Wednesday, on his day off, Flaig happened to be driving past the DA Blodgett offices. He decided to stop in and tell them of his find. An employee there volunteered to call Tallady for him.

Tallady, 45, was surprised to get the call at Lowe's. How did the DA Blodgett people know where she worked?

"The first thing that crossed my mind is something was wrong with him," she said. Was he sick? Did he need a blood transfusion?

"And then she said, 'Christine, he works with you,'" Tallady recalled. "It was a shock. I started crying. I figured he would call me sometime, but not like this."

She sobbed a lot that day, tears of joy. Flaig called her later that day, and last Friday the two, who until then had occasionally said "hi" as coworkers do, met at the Cheers Good Time Saloon near the store. They hugged, sat and talked for 2 1/2 hours.

On Tuesday, they hugged again in the store where both were working the day shift. They know their paths must have crossed many times. Both graduated from Northview schools. Both attended St. Jude's Catholic Church.

"We both hate olives, both love roller coasters," Tallady said.

Flaig hasn't decided whether to search now for his birth father. He's anxious to meet Tallady's other two children, Brandon, 10, and Alexandra, 12. Her husband, Dale, out of town on business, wants to be there when they meet, maybe this weekend.

"My husband is wonderful," Tallady said. "He wants it to be a whole family thing."



- Wouldn't it suck if you found out that your boss that you hated was actually your real mom?

[sally]

OMG THIS IS SOOOO CUTE sigh. mashaAllah

[Deel]

is that them? how cute .
although that's kind of.. awkward. i can imagine how much he hesitated to tell her after he found out

[Wolfn]

Subhanallah, what are the chances of that happening?


While we are on the subject, two months till I meet my birth mom for the first time. She has 2 sons now, so I guess that they are my brothers. Inshallah this will be a good experiance.

[Kona_Silat]

Who would have thought that career choices were hereditary. kidding.

[Variable]

I can't stop thinking about all the awkwardness that could have been possible in any variety of hypothetical situations. I picture an evil giant-woman I used to work with in the deli, a horrible horrible lady ...if I had found out she was my mom I never would've gone back.

[annie_359]

Awww, such a lovely story..

Wolfn' let us know how that goes, inshAllah it will go great

Annie

[Ilikemyscarf]

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Great news.

[psychoteddybear]

Originally Posted by Wolfn

Subhanallah, what are the chances of that happening?


While we are on the subject, two months till I meet my birth mom for the first time. She has 2 sons now, so I guess that they are my brothers. Inshallah this will be a good experiance.

omg....amazing! that's amazing!

[jinnzaman]

This is an awesome heartwarming story.

I'm not gonna cry.

Not

gonna

[annie_359]

Originally Posted by Variable

I'm not sure why but that pic really reminds me of the place where Lois (the Mum) from Malcolm in the Middle works

Annie

[LEGALEAGLE]

Subhanalla bro that's great news !

[Aryan_]

I am in a similar situation. A few years ago I got one of those animal rescue adoption presents for my birthday and I adopted a tiger. One day I will have to tell him the truth.

[annie_359]

Originally Posted by Aryan_

I am in a similar situation. A few years ago I got one of those animal rescue adoption presents for my birthday and I adopted a tiger. One day I will have to tell him the truth.

Who's the real Daddy??

Annie

[Bluestar]

that's slightly strange