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Old 12-22-2007, 10:19 PM
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My best friend since the 7th grade was killed this past Friday at 2:30am by a man from Yemen who was in a jealous rage....Im so sad, Its hard to digest this, I cant believe it

Has anyone been through something similar or does anyone please have any words of comfort, I would really appreciate it


http://www.news12.com/BX/topstories/article?id=204677
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Inna lillaahe wa inna ilayhe raji3oun
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Old 12-22-2007, 10:23 PM
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Inna lillaahe wa inna ilayhe raji3oun

Same here.
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Im sorry for your great loss, Dear sea_of_roses,Inna lillaahi wa inna ilayhe raji3oon. May Allah subwa tallah have mercy on her soul and grant you and her family patience
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Old 12-22-2007, 10:31 PM
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but inna lillahi wainna ilaihi rajioon.
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Old 12-22-2007, 10:43 PM
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Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon. =(
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I'm sorry to hear that sis


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inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oun.

very sorry to hear that
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Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioun

How horrific.. you are in my thoughts and prayer sis.. check ur inbox

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Innaa lillaahi wa innaa ilayhi raaji'oon
So very sorry to hear of the loss of your best friend
This was in the Bronx, yes? My Mother used to work as a Nurse in the Bronx.
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy

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omg... inna lilahi wa inna ilahi rajioon
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I really appreciate everyone taking the time out to express their sympathy, Thank you.

Sisters, Brothers we have to be careful and make sure not to play with other peoples emotions, because some people do not respect life and will easily harm others for reasons we feel are petty. I wish my Friend had made different choices, I wish that man never laid eyes on her, I basically wish this never happened.

Take time out to be with your loved ones....life is so short
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(12/21/07) THE BRONX - One woman is dead and two men are wounded after a triple shooting in the Bronx.
Officials say the shooting occurred around 2:20 a.m. Friday on Hoe Avenue. Police say a man shot and killed his girlfriend, 23-year-old Jessica Gonzelez, moments after she broke up with him.

Police have identified the suspect as Muammer Aldailam, a worker at the Hoe Avenue Deli. They say Gonzalez and a friend drove to the deli, and after the friend went inside and retrieved Aldailam, he got into the car with Gonzalez and shot her in the head.

According to authorities, Gonzalez was found dead in the passenger seat of her car.

Police say the gunman left the car and fired at Gonzalez’s new boyfriend and another passenger, who were sitting in a car across the street. After wounding the two men, police say the gunman fled the scene.

Investigators say Gonzalez’s new boyfriend is in critical condition after being shot in the head and leg. Police say the third victim was shot in his arm and will survive. Both men are recovering at Lincoln Hospital.

Neighbors say Aldailam had a decent reputation on the block, and they believe it was his jealousy over Gonzalez spending time with new people that caused him to snap. They say over the years, crime has been getting much better in their area and that Friday’s triple shooting disappoints them.

Family and friends who visited Gonzalez’s new boyfriend in the hospital say he is now brain dead and in a coma.


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