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05-14-2008, 08:48 PM
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Please make dua for a brother
Asalam Alaikum:
Our friend is going through a horrible divorce. His wife is mentally unstable, and for the last 3 years has been accusing everyone around her of spying on her. She's gone so far as to accuse professors, and even my husband and myself of planting cameras in her home to spy on her. She's taken her daughter from her home, and decided that her soon to be ex-husband was molesting her daughter, and is trying to kill her. Unfortunately, becuase she's a woman, everyone is taking her side even though there is absolutely no physical evidence to support her case. They aren't even interested in hearing from her psychiatrist. They don't want to hear her husbands side at all. His daughter is going to be examined YET AGAIN tommorow (she's had her poor daughter examined 3 times now and each time the results are the same, nothing happened, but they won't believe it)
Please make dua for our dear brother in Islam that they finally realize that he's not done anything, drop the charges against him, that he gets custody of his daughter, and his wife is forced to take treatment for her mental illness.
I seriously worry that if this goes on, she's going to kill her dauther. Nobody is willing to listen to him, becuase she's a white woman, and he's a brown immigrant.
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05-14-2008, 08:50 PM
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Re: Please make dua for a brother
unforunate..
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05-14-2008, 08:52 PM
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Re: Please make dua for a brother
wow...tough situation 
inshallah everything works out for the best
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05-14-2008, 08:54 PM
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Re: Please make dua for a brother
Damn, that's messed up.
Hope everything works out for them, inshallah.
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Re: Please make dua for a brother
That's really unfortunate.
May Allah make his affairs easy,ameen.
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Re: Please make dua for a brother
Does the guy have a lawyer worth his salt?
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Does the guy have a lawyer worth his salt?
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Yes, but it doesn't matter when they won't listen. They haven't brought any charges YET, but they won't let him see his daughter unsupervised. They just aren't interested in hearing his side at all. He called the police on his wife several time becuase of things she was doing and the police wouldn't come they just told him "it's a civil matter, we can't get involved." She called them once on him, because she didn't want him to pick up his daughter 5 minutes early for his visitiation, and 4 police cars were immediately dispatched.
We've written statements about her condition, which is about all we can do, but all for naught. All we can do is make dua that Allah (swt) who is the most Just and the best of Protectors will save this little girl from her mother, and clear her father from all these accusations. |
05-14-2008, 09:21 PM
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All we can do is make dua that Allah (swt) who is the most Just and the best of Protectors will save this little girl from her mother, and clear her father from all these accusations.
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iA ameen. Duas
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inshallah things work out for the best. ameen.
maybe he should start trying to get some proof of his own, because when they do go to court, they will have to listen.
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I will keep your friend and his daughter in my duaas, iA .
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Hopefully he is documenting everything that has been going on as well as what has occured in the past. That's really sad for him  Inshallah things work out...
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05-18-2008, 04:19 PM
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Hopefully he is documenting everything that has been going on as well as what has occured in the past. That's really sad for him Inshallah things work out...
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Oh yes, he most certainly is. After this third investigation showed the charges to be false, they finally dropped the case against him, and now the social workers appear to have turned against her. She's still refusing to allow his daughter to see him, even for the appointed visitation. He took police to her house, and she refused to let him see his daughter. So, he's going to see about getting emergency custody of the girl.
It's really out of hand. Hopefully there should be no doubt in anyones mind about her sanity.
Keep making dua's though. The little girl isnt' really safe until her father has full custody, and her mother is forced into treatment. |
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will do inshaAllah.
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05-19-2008, 01:13 PM
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They met with the judge today, and nothing happened. The judge was "concerned" that the woman isn't allowing visitation. THey didn't do ANYTHING at all! No emergency custody, not even a note on the visitiation.
What kind of justice is this? He did nothing wrong, so why is she allowed to cause psychological trauma to her own daughter by not letting her see her father?
Any legal people with advice would be appreciated.
Please make dua for him.
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05-19-2008, 01:24 PM
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Assalam Alaykum,
Subhan'allah. May Allah subhanna wa ta'ala easen things for him and his daughter.
It's silly they won't listen to her psychiatrist! She'll have all the proof they need. Well enough to make it go in favour with the husband.
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