[Revert]

Salaams

InshaAllah everything works out for the Brother...

[ChotooMotoo]

*bump*

So, next week they have a custody hearing. Despite the fact that she has lied to police (and it's documented) that CPS told her they won't listen to her allegations anymore, and that they dropped the investigation against him, she still won't let him see the daughter, and her lawyer is insisting on supervised custody only. The husband feels like if he accepts supervised custody, he's basically accepting guilt for something he didn't do.

He's really depressed, and is worried that the judge will not listen to him a bit, and only give him supervised custody in spite of everything.

Please make dua for him. This is the hight of injustice that when he's been shown to be innocent of all alegations, they would still ty to take his daughter away.

Dua's please.

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

this is odd, in the uk all sorts of fathers get to see their children and the women who fail to turn up to visits get warnings that they're going to be taken to prison.

Insha Allah I hope whatever happens is the best for the little girl. Ameen.

[Salika]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

They met with the judge today, and nothing happened. The judge was "concerned" that the woman isn't allowing visitation. THey didn't do ANYTHING at all! No emergency custody, not even a note on the visitiation.

What kind of justice is this? He did nothing wrong, so why is she allowed to cause psychological trauma to her own daughter by not letting her see her father?

Any legal people with advice would be appreciated.

Please make dua for him.

Who's "they" that won't let her psychiatrist speak or hear the husband's side?

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by Salika

Who's "they" that won't let her psychiatrist speak or hear the husband's side?

They being the Gaurdian ad Litem and company. It's not that they won't let the psychiatrist speak, they never even bothered to contact him, or supeona her medical records. CPS and the police are pretty pissed with her, because she's wasted a LOT of money in her little investigations, and police time because she's tried to get him arrested several time without just cause, and even lied to them. I dunno why none of that seems to matter. All I can think is that in redneck America a white woman can still do anything she wants.

[ChotooMotoo]

There is a visitation hearing tomorrow. If you get a chance, please make dua that the judge will be fair.

[Bruinrab]

Inshallah.

[Khairan]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

There is a visitation hearing tomorrow. If you get a chance, please make dua that the judge will be fair.

Inshallah may Allah give him justice in the hearing. I am so sorry to hear about everything your friend is going through.

[Deel]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Asalam Alaikum:

Our friend is going through a horrible divorce. His wife is mentally unstable, and for the last 3 years has been accusing everyone around her of spying on her. She's gone so far as to accuse professors, and even my husband and myself of planting cameras in her home to spy on her. She's taken her daughter from her home, and decided that her soon to be ex-husband was molesting her daughter, and is trying to kill her. Unfortunately, becuase she's a woman, everyone is taking her side even though there is absolutely no physical evidence to support her case. They aren't even interested in hearing from her psychiatrist. They don't want to hear her husbands side at all. His daughter is going to be examined YET AGAIN tommorow (she's had her poor daughter examined 3 times now and each time the results are the same, nothing happened, but they won't believe it)

Please make dua for our dear brother in Islam that they finally realize that he's not done anything, drop the charges against him, that he gets custody of his daughter, and his wife is forced to take treatment for her mental illness.

I seriously worry that if this goes on, she's going to kill her dauther. Nobody is willing to listen to him, becuase she's a white woman, and he's a brown immigrant.

subhanAllah my family knows a muslim brother who had the same exact thing happened to him with his ex-wife, who was also white. after his constant struggles and court hearings, they allowed him supervised visitations only. the mother would drop the girl at our house and leave, and he could spend a couple of hours with his daughter twice a week. alhamdulilah, the daughter chose to stay permanently with her father. they eventually proved the mother to have serious mental issues and he now has full custody
inshaAllah khair choto, the family will be shown justice

[Yahya]

Assalamualaikum

this is really sad , May the Most merciful ease his suffering, keep him strong and give him justice. Ameen, Allahumma Ameen

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum

this is odd, in the uk all sorts of fathers get to see their children and the women who fail to turn up to visits get warnings that they're going to be taken to prison.

Insha Allah I hope whatever happens is the best for the little girl. Ameen.

unfortunately this sort of stuff happens in the UK as well, hence the group famous for their stunt protests 'fathers for justice'.

Wasalamualaikum warahmatullah
Yahya

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

Well, they at least (most)get supervised contact. Of course that isn't fair to innocent fathers who would have a positive influence on their children.

[ChotooMotoo]

Well, the judge threw out this allegation. He didn't make any decision on the visitation, they are waiting to finish the psychological evaluations before they set another hearing date. However, the judge TOLD her, to her face, that she has to abide by visitation arrangement agreed on informally by all parties in March. She isn't doing it. She won't even let the father TALK to the child on the phone. They don't expect another hearing date until the end of this month, or early next month.

She can still do whatever she wants, and nothing happens to her. Keep making dua's.

[LEGALEAGLE]

Welcome to the English Legal System.

One reason why I decided not to do Family law.

May Allah swt help him...

[ShahRukh]

that sounds a lot like my cousin's ex-wife who went completely psycho due to developing some sort of suspiciousness disorder caused by being possessed by jinns and black magic, she also developed some weird form of schizophrenia due to the black magic....

my coz is a religious 6X muslim and a person of taqwa....he took her to an Alim who'd cure possessed ppl with spells of black magic done on them...she was under Alim's treatment for 3 months and calmed a lot down...but after that she suddenly went completely psycho n refused to go see the alim...so my coz had no option but to dump her...


unfortunately black magic is widely practiced by some evil muslims in the south asian community due to bad hindu cultural influences...

[Islamic_Women]

I will send Dua on your brothers way.