[Budmano786]

Don't give trentreznor the attention he's dying for...sorry to hear about that, inshallah i'll dua for whatever is best

[jaani]

Thats just wrong......everyone should be wanting you Bruin......it must be a mistake

You're in my dua'as


~j

[sumiyia]

du'aas

[Bruinrab]

Any dua suggestions appropriate for this? Please give translations if you have them.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by Bruinrab

Any dua suggestions appropriate for this? Please give translations if you have them.

Can't you do an externship somewhere, and try again next year?

[Bruinrab]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Can't you do an externship somewhere, and try again next year?

There's a "scramble" tomorrow, but those positions are only for one year, and I just have to take what I get. I'll have to reapply for full residencies all over again. The time, expense, hassle, etc will be repeated.

[The Girl]

Allahumma la sahla illama ja-'altahu sahla wa anta taj 'alu al hazana etha shi 'ta sahla

O Allah! Nothing is easy except what You have made easy. If You wish, You can make the difficult easy.

Allahumma inni a'oodhoo bika minal-hammi walhuzni, wal-'ajzi wal-kasali wal-bukhli wal-jubni, wa dal'id-dayni wa ghalabatir- rajaal

O Allah! I seek refuge in You from anxiety and sorrow, weakness and laziness, miserliness and cowardice, the burden of debts and from being oppressed by men.

Allahumma rahmataka arjoo falaa takilnee ilaa nafsee tarfata 'aynin wa aslih-lee sha'nee kullahu, laa ilaha illa anta

O Allah! It is Your mercy that I hope for so do not leave me in charge of my affairs even for a blink of an eye and rectify for me all of my affairs. None has the right to be worshipped except You.

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

i dont really get the situation, but may Allah swt make this easy for you, grant you patience and give you the best in this life and the next, ameen

[Bruinrab]

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum

i dont really get the situation, but may Allah swt make this easy for you, grant you patience and give you the best in this life and the next, ameen

Basically the last 10 years of my life came crashing down around me.

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

(ok...not good) can't you explain it to me, please, the whole match thing? I thought you were looking for a donor when i glanced through it

insha Allah khair

[Timbit]

Yeah, I don't really get what's going on either, and I didn't know you were joking in the other thread... but InshaAllah khair. Du'as.

[Bruinrab]

Originally Posted by zzze

assalamu alaykum

(ok...not good) can't you explain it to me, please, the whole match thing? I thought you were looking for a donor when i glanced through it

insha Allah khair

OK, after interviewing for residencies, programs and candidates rank who they like the most. A computer uses a formula to match people to jobs. Somehow, despite being a great candidate, I got screwed and didn't get a job. Never mind getting a temporary job instead of a permanent one, I have no job for when I graduate from medical school. A $200K degree, and I'm unemployed.

I have to sit down with my dean and try to find a temporary (1 year) job tomorrow. But, this means I have to repeat the whole process again next year. Apart from the time and hassle, it means that I basically wasted about $10K on the application process. And then, if I match next year, that year won't count towards my training time.

And even with how bad surgical residency can be, programs tend to treat their temporary people even worse. So even if I find a job, I can look forward to having to repeat this whole fiasco and being treated worse than the crap on the crap on the bottom of a shoe.

Like I said, the last 10 years of struggling to get where I am came crashing down around me. So trentreznor can go f-himself.

[Rida]

Their is always salaatul haajat (the prayer of help).

Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) mentions, "Whoever has any need, then firstly, perform a proper Wudhu, thereafter perform 2 Rakaats Salaat (reciting whichever Surahs one desires). Thereafter, commence your Du'aa by praising Allah and sending salutations upon Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam)."

Recite the following Du'aa, "Laa ilaaha illallaahul haleemul kareem. Subhaanallaahu rabbil arshil adheem, alhamdulillaahi rabbil `aalameen. As-aluka muwjibaat rahmatika, wa `adhaaima maghfiratika wal ghaneemat min kulli birr was salaamat min kulli ithm, laa tada`a liy dhanban illaa ghafaratah walaa hamman illaa farrajtah walaa haajatan hiya laka ridhan illaa qadhaytahaa Yaa arhamar raahimeen"

(Trans: There is no deity besides Allah who is most tolerant and most noble. Glory be to Allah Who is the Lord of the majestic throne. All praises are for Allah, the lord of the Universe. I am asking you O Allah to bestow upon me Your mercy and forgiveness, grant me piety and protection from all misfortunes. Do not leave any sin on me except that you forgive me, relieve me from distress and difficulties and fulfil all such needs of mine which You are pleased with - O Most Merciful of those who show mercy.) (Tirmidhi pg.108; Ashrafiyya)

Together with performing this Salaat, one should always keep in mind that help and assistance comes only from Allah Ta'ala. Allah grants to whomsoever He wishes and withholds from whomsoever He wishes. If one's needs are not fulfilled, do not ever become despondent in the mercy of Allah because Allah is the most wise and know best the reason of withholding one's Du'aas and needs.
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai

[iSHi]

OH NO!!! I'm sorry to hear that sis. Have you tried contacting the different places to find out "why" or what happend?! Try again, if you can/possible. i'A khair.

[Bruinrab]

Oh, and my friends are all going to find out where they matched on Thursday, and then they'll all be going out to celebrate.