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06-29-2008, 12:24 PM
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He loves me?
First of all, it's a pleasure to be here.
I'm not muslim yet, and I've met a muslim man, he is 18 years older than me. He had invited me to go out, what that means?
Perhaps is he in love? 
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06-29-2008, 12:25 PM
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Re: He loves me?
He doesn't love you.
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06-29-2008, 12:27 PM
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Re: He loves me?
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First of all, it's a pleasure to be here.
I'm not muslim yet, and I've met a muslim man, he is 18 years older than me. He had invited me to go out, what that means?
Perhaps is he in love? |
Hi Latifah! 
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06-29-2008, 12:32 PM
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Re: He loves me?
ello ello
Welcome to the forum 
This isnt really a good forum for that kind of advise since we got some weirdos here! But i do wish you the best 
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06-29-2008, 12:34 PM
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Re: He loves me?
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First of all, it's a pleasure to be here.
I'm not muslim yet, and I've met a muslim man, he is 18 years older than me. He had invited me to go out, what that means?
Perhaps is he in love? |
salams
1.welcome
2. Depends what kind of character he has..and where he lies on scale of 'religious-ness'
If he's god fearing and a TJ, he'd probably invite you along with one of your male relatives
to go out....to give proper dawah to you..  OR sincerely wants to get to know you for
marriage purposes..
if he's progressive type of muslim..and he's single..he might be fishing for whatever he can
get his hands on....if so, i'd advise to keep your distance.
Allah knows best.
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06-29-2008, 12:44 PM
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Thanks for the answers!
Spice, I'm thinking about it
kellyjaz, thanks for the advice, I really loved that forum, it looks amazing! 
the_only_one, I think he is a God fearing, he is teaching me very much about Islamism. He is single but have son, his son is 12 years old...
I'm feeling lost. I don't know what to do, maybe I'm in love for him...
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Maybe he does love you and maybe you love him, but you shouldn't convert just to make him happy.
Islam is a religion, not a cultural identity. By becoming Muslim, you assume a certain set of obligations and responsibilities.
Also, don't marry someone thats 18 years older than you. Thats dumb.
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06-29-2008, 12:51 PM
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Also, don't marry someone thats 18 years older than you. Thats dumb.
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Nota Buene: Even I have no idea what the hell that means
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Thanks for the answers!
Spice, I'm thinking about it
kellyjaz, thanks for the advice, I really loved that forum, it looks amazing!
the_only_one, I think he is a God fearing, he is teaching me very much about Islamism. He is single but have son, his son is 12 years old...
I'm feeling lost. I don't know what to do, maybe I'm in love for him... |
I'd suggest you write down on a paper as WHY YOU LOVE HIM? Later you should read that note OUTLOUD to yourself and after hearing your reasoning..if you're fully convinced for he's the right one for you ..then I think you should proceed with clear intentions of marrying him in near future..Hope things workout for the best. Btw: You should make tons and tons of supplication to God Almighty to grant you whats best for this world and hereafter. 
Clarification: wait are you confused about your emotions towards him or are you unsure whether eor not you should change religions to empower your love of your life?
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Thanks for the answers!
Spice, I'm thinking about it
kellyjaz, thanks for the advice, I really loved that forum, it looks amazing!
the_only_one, I think he is a God fearing, he is teaching me very much about Islamism. He is single but have son, his son is 12 years old...
I'm feeling lost. I don't know what to do, maybe I'm in love for him... |
bit random here but HEy your name means poem in urdu..anyways tc
Walaikum as salaam
btw if youve met him on the net dont meet him hes probably the 12 yr old tryna hook up his dad!
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Where does he live?
Its dangerous to meet people over then net especially if he's not willing to come meet you. He's a man he should do the work.
Never convert for a person as this is the wrong way to go. As Jinnzaman said Islam and being a Muslim isn't a cultural identity.
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I'm confused. All he did is ask you out?
If you wanna give it a shot, say yes. If you don't, then politely decline.
How're we jumping to love and marriage already? 
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06-29-2008, 01:07 PM
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Re: He loves me?
Thanks my friends, thanks veeeeeeeeeery much!!!
About turn to islam, is not because of him, I've met him after I met islamism, I've met him while I was learning about islam.
I'll do the paper thingy. And think carefully about the situation. I'm confused because I think I'm in love...
The fact is, I had to decline because I had to go out this weekend, but I wish so bad he invite me again!!!!!!!! I can't decline his invitation, he is pretty cute, smart....
Oh, we work together
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