He loves me?

Latifah · #31 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Variable

Probably because Brazilian girls are supposed to be hot.

I think he was just kidding.

I'm not sure about to post my pic!

Timbit · #32 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by the_only_one

you wouldnt know if the water is hot or cold..you got to dive in to find out...

Exactly.

Seems like you know him a little bit and are interested in him. And clearly, you do want to take him up on his offer. So go out whenever you have some time and get to know him better. Then you'll know if you're in love with him or not (and you can ask him if he's in love with you or not). And then you can decide on marriage (if it gets there). Okay? Okay.

And if you have parents/wiser family members who care about you, you should probably ask them for advice.

annie_359 · #33 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Timbit

Exactly.

Seems like you know him a little bit and are interested in him. And clearly, you do want to take him up on his offer. So go out whenever you have some time and get to know him better. Then you'll know if you're in love with him or not (and you can ask him if he's in love with you or not). And then you can decide on marriage (if it gets there). Okay? Okay.

And if you have parents/wiser family members who care about you, you should probably ask them for advice.

Best advice so far.. take one step at a time.. I know it's hard but try not to get too excited and get your hopes up, no matter how much he chases you. Often enough, it leads to disappointment and I wouldn't wanna see you get hurt (that doesn't mean he is a bad guy but sometimes even two good people can't make a relationship work due to personal differences)

Just take ur time and think things clearly as possible with the advice of ur family like sister Timby said

Annie

Latifah · #34 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 02:00 PM

Thank you friends!!! I'll take care!

Thanks for all the advices!!!

Revert · #35 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 02:51 PM

The thing is as a Muslim male he should know better in this situation. Have you met his fmaily? DO they know about you? Its good to familiarise yourself with his culture and his religion as there might be troubles down the line.

I hope it does go well for you but you should approach the situation in the proper way and so should he.

What religion are you Latifah if you don't mind me asking?

Ilikemyscarf · #36 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 08:31 PM

He doesn't love you.

vegetables · #37 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 08:44 PM

maybe its just me but im getting such a bad vibe from this guy/situation. if you do decide to meet him, take someone with you and stay in a public place... im pretty paranoid

zeyneddine · #38 (**permalink**) 06-29-2008, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Latifah

First of all, it's a pleasure to be here.

I'm not muslim yet, and I've met a muslim man, he is 18 years older than me. He had invited me to go out, what that means?

Perhaps is he in love?

WHAT??????????

Vickie · #39 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 06:37 AM

hey latifah...be careful okay..
u still dont know his real intention.. if u really want to meet him up, go meet at a busy place.. and dont ride his car.. even if he offers ...
and im just kind of curious...from where u got that name.. "latifah"?

Latifah · #40 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 08:44 AM

Revert, I didn't met his family, only him. I don't have a religion, but I believe in God. I didn't find the right religion yet.

Vegetables, I'll do that!

zeyneddine, this is my biggest problem!!!!

Vickie, this name was from a soap opera, there was a muslim girl with this name

And I won't ride his car!

pax · #41 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 09:30 AM

Maybe I missed that part, but how long have you known him?

Insh'allah, it will all work out for you

Latifah · #42 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by pax

Maybe I missed that part, but how long have you known him?

Insh'allah, it will all work out for you

For one month, we work together, I'm new in his company!

Tairra · #43 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Latifah

Thanks for the answers!

Spice, I'm thinking about it

kellyjaz, thanks for the advice, I really loved that forum, it looks amazing!

the_only_one, I think he is a God fearing, he is teaching me very much about Islamism. He is single but have son, his son is 12 years old...

I'm feeling lost. I don't know what to do, maybe I'm in love for him...

oh sister please to be blind sided by him teaching you about islam, sometimes its a cover up to allure you in, when their intentions really arent that good. And hes not in love, if he tells you or hints that hes in love with you, he's lying, straight up. And yeah if his intentions are good he'll invite to go with him with some of your relatives. Never alone, if he does just dismiss him.

Tairra · #44 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Latifah

For one month, we work together, I'm new in his company!

sister, if you dont mind me asking, how old are you? This man, umm I've been hit on by a lot of old dudes, and they are just gross, even when they're trying to talk about islam their gross because their intentions arent pure.

zeyneddine · #45 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Latifah

zeyneddine, this is my biggest problem!!!!

Ms. Latifah, your biggest problem is you're asking for advice on Islamica.
The next biggest would be trusting someone who's old enough to be your father based on ONE MONTH'S association.
How's the weather in Brazil?