[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

Originally Posted by thejellymill

*shrug* That's a question for a scholar

in the reliance of the traveller it says it's ok to pay back what you owe with inflation, because that maintains the value of that which you borrowed. I know some people who still didn't take out student loans, though, but they were ok with parents paying for their uni...from haram money

[jinnzaman]

I hate dependent women.

If she went through all the trouble of getting an education and taking on all these loans, then she should work and pay off her debts. If she has a legitimate reason for not working, then I would obviously pay off her debts, but I'm not gonna let her leach off of me.

Marriage is a partnership, not a feudal tributary system.

[qudsia]

Originally Posted by jinnzaman

Marriage is a partnership, not a feudal tributary system.

wait till i tell your mom you said that..

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by jinnzaman

I hate dependent women.

If she went through all the trouble of getting an education and taking on all these loans, then she should work and pay off her debts. If she has a legitimate reason for not working, then I would obviously pay off her debts, but I'm not gonna let her leach off of me.

Marriage is a partnership, not a feudal tributary system.

I dunno dude... the way some guys have posted about womens "obedience" and such you gotta wonder.

You're not going all feminist now are you?

[jinnzaman]

Originally Posted by qudsia

wait till i tell your mom you said that..

My mom's a nazi.

I found out she was scoping out a rishta for me and I was like 'ayte, spill the beans, whose the girl?"

and she's like 'she's a distant relative and she's got fair skin. her skin is whiter than mine!'

Then I asked my mom if she knew what a "nazi" was and when she said she didn't know, I told her thats what she was.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by jinnzaman

My mom's a nazi.

I found out she was scoping out a rishta for me and I was like 'ayte, spill the beans, whose the girl?"

and she's like 'she's a distant relative and she's got fair skin. her skin is whiter than mine!'

Then I asked my mom if she knew what a "nazi" was and when she said she didn't know, I told her thats what she was.

Huh, I wondered where you got that black eye. Now I know...

[jinnzaman]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

I dunno dude... the way some guys have posted about womens "obedience" and such you gotta wonder.

You're not going all feminist now are you?

Dude, I am probably one of the most liberal people on here. However, I have immense respect for the classical tradition and if people want to critique it, they should do so on the proper intellectual foundations and not because its not white Europeans do. Freakin emos.

[jinnzaman]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Huh, I wondered where you got that black eye. Now I know...

Our family is very boisterous, argumentative, and witty. We diss each other all the time. We respect our parents a lot, but sometimes we just sit around and crack jokes on each other.

To give an example, me, my bro, and sister were getting ready to watch "Into the Wild" and my mom comes downstairs and is like "Wait! I have a joke to tell you" and we're like "mom, the movie's about to start, tell us later" and she's like "no no, it'll only take a few minutes" and then we're like "fine go ahead" and then she's like "Okay, so there's this elephant and a goat and the elephant's family goes to the goat's family for a rishta and the goat declines and the goat's family and the elephant's family are like 'why'd you turn down the rishta? The elephant's strong, handsome, and rich?' and then the goat's like 'yes, thats true, but he's got these two teeth that jut out!' and then she starts laughing and we're like "We don't get it mom." then she's like "The elephant is [jinnzaman]!" and then she starts cackling and leaves. My bro and sister laughed too. I did not.

[I have two teeth that stick out A LITTLE]

[qudsia]

hahaha! that's awesome. but hey. just cause your mom wants a gori chitti bahu doesn't make her a nazi..is a light wheatish complexioned hot girl REALLY too much to ask for?!

also. jinnzaman is a closet feminist.

[jinnzaman]

Originally Posted by qudsia

hahaha! that's awesome. but hey. just cause your mom wants a gori chitti bahu doesn't make her a nazi..is a light wheatish complexioned hot girl REALLY too much to ask for?!

also. jinnzaman is a closet feminist.

Seriously.

My mom is the motivation behind this:



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[bihari]

Originally Posted by IbnMardhiyah

Dude, what did you think the mahr was for, then?

lol i was about to say exactly that

[Glasgow]

I think it's sad that some guys are willing to let themselves get suckered in by hot girls, who want them to pay of their debts.

There are plenty of fish in the ocean. next please.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by Glasgow

I think it's sad that some guys are willing to let themselves get suckered in by hot girls, who want them to pay of their debts.

Their are plenty of fish in the ocean. next please.

Totally. Fat, homely, short, inteligent girls are WAY better. We're the best cooks, and we pay our own debts.

[IbnMardhiyah]

Originally Posted by Glasgow

I think it's sad that some guys are willing to let themselves get suckered in by hot girls, who want them to pay of their debts.

There are plenty of fish in the ocean. next please.

You do know its all really relative, right? For some guys, paying off $5000 of her debt is peanuts.

[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by IbnMardhiyah

You do know its all really relative, right? For some guys, paying off $5000 of her debt is peanuts.

Not if he's cheap..