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Old 06-26-2008, 09:58 PM
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Immodest because I used the word sex? Would it have be more modest if I disguised it as ManicMuslim did?
The difference is tactfulness.

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Old 06-26-2008, 10:00 PM
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Ibn: You're not known for it.

Aww pooey.


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hahahaha no all im saying is that some people are comfortable talking about sex more so than others wether thats right or wrong who knows its Islamica ....and seesh its not like she said "I like sex...its gooood baby". relax it IS a pro of marriage...dont get your panties in a bunch
I don't think I quite understand what you're talking about here, but I found a really funny smiley that I thought I'd share with you:
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Immodest because I used the word sex? Would it have be more modest if I disguised it as ManiacMuslim did?
OMG. at first i read that as "MODERN_Muslim" and started giggling out of nostalgia.
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Damn......Is saying that sex is a pro of marriage really that big a deal? I don't get it. I'm sure you all hear much worse throughout the day. Sex isn't a swear word or anything.

Why make a big fuss over this?
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Damn......Is saying that sex is a pro of marriage really that big a deal? I don't get it. I'm sure you all hear much worse throughout the day. Sex isn't a swear word or anything.

Why make a big fuss over this?
thats exactly what i was trying to say. hahahah islamicans are funny.
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The difference is tactfulness.

You're not known for it.
Lol I like how you accuse everyone of stuff that your guilty off.
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I'm surprised no one mentioned kids
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Damn......Is saying that sex is a pro of marriage really that big a deal? I don't get it. I'm sure you all hear much worse throughout the day. Sex isn't a swear word or anything.

Why make a big fuss over this?
I guess it depends on personal preference...but your logic doesn't really make sense to me. if we're using a relative scale here, theres a lot of offensive and crude things we can say on this website and argue that "oh, well you hear much worse throughout the day". So although relatively speaking using that kind of language isn't the worst thing in the world, it still is very inappropriate and its not a swear word, but again...theres a LOT of offensive and dirty things you can say without swearing. The fuss is necessary because a large segment (if not majority) of the islamican population finds that kind of talk to be very inappropriate. I'm not being a prude...I'm the first person to openly joke around about girls, marriage, etc....but a married muslim woman to say what she said is very inappropriate and taking it to another level.
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thats exactly what i was trying to say. hahahah islamicans are funny.
Haha....honestly. I'm scratching my head here, I looked at Shadha's post like three times to see if I missed anything.
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OMG. at first i read that as "MODERN_Muslim" and started giggling out of nostalgia.
whatever happened to him? he was a barrel of laughs and neg reps. and ~^*~@*~PuNjABi JaTt~*@~*^~ness

He came back recently but you probably missed him. he seemed pretty reformed.
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did anyone mention coming home to a nice home cooked meal and clean house? no? good.
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afrakabob: whatever happened to him?

He supposedly got married.

Nabisco: I'm surprised no one mentioned kids

You don't need to be married for that, you can adopt.


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i like how the singles population of islamica persistently post in this thread
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