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Re: What are you supposed to feel?
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hahahahah oh thank god I thought i was the only one.  |
Yes...............another jaded and cynical person! 
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Re: What are you supposed to feel?
or possibly something like this:
YouTube - Meri Pyari Bindu |
06-24-2008, 06:48 PM
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Re: What are you supposed to feel?
I had some Pizza My Heart's pesto pizza today.  |
06-24-2008, 06:50 PM
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Re: What are you supposed to feel?
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I don't think that really happens very often. The walking on clouds and the doves and all that.
I think you have to think about,
"could I spend my life with this person?" - do they have a personality you could get on with
"Does he/she look nice to me" - do you find them attractive or nice-looking
"do they have similar views" - do they have similar values is more useful, because you might have differences of opinions on different topics, but is the underlying value system similar?
You might not feel all these sparks, but people become more attractive the more you get to know them. Think of good friends you have, I bet they seem more pretty or handsome the more you got to know them, no matter what they look like.
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assalamu alaykum
(for me) A feeling of contentment, peace...as though no one else will suffice. Do you see goodness and sincerity in him? Do others? Would he be a good husband and father? Does he have a strong conscience(that he follows!)? Is he honest? Does he really listen, take things on board and continue doing x even when the hype is over?
It really depends what you want in a husband, make a list and see how many ticks he gets.Take some time out, maybe ask him a few more questions and then perform istikhara for a week. If you're not sure and are crying over it then maybe you just want to say yes because of the pressure and everything else thinks he's great?
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I felt the same as zzze and Salika. As Jamroll stated above, Hubby and I shared the same views and have similar hobbies which made it easier for us to get along. After talking to him for a few months, i knew this is THE guy for me.
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When you feel you have to negotiate, then he's not the one |
hah! love is a negotiation
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Re: What are you supposed to feel?
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hah! love is a negotiation |
It only becomes a negotiation after you get married. Before marriage it's all bliss and la di da and what not  |
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Re: What are you supposed to feel?
Perhaps like this:
YouTube - Tashan - Dil Dance Maare (vid's kinda 7aram)
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I had the "i cant wait to get in bed with her" feeling  |
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If I take my friend's word for it, when you meet the person you want to marry...doves will suddenly appear, you'll feel as if you're walking on a cloud and music (if its not haram for you) will follow you wherever you go...
So what if you don't feel that?
What are you supposed to feel? If you've prayed and been given the blessing of everyone from his parents to the family's talking parrot...
And for those who are married...what did you feel? Did you feel anything at all? Is it at all prudent to wait for "that feeling"
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I had the "i cant wait to get in bed with her" feeling |
TMI my man............TMI. 
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TMI my man............TMI. |
f'real 
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He's just a troll, in case you guys hadn't figured it out already.
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oh man this just reminds me of the whoosh story ahahahha
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