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Re: Sisters, would you sign a prenuptial agreement?
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Jelly-spined can be those who mooch off of their families, and run to their mommies when things aren't going well.
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Wth?! What's wrong with that? That's what you're supposed to do.
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Re: Sisters, would you sign a prenuptial agreement?
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Re: Sisters, would you sign a prenuptial agreement?
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Wth?! What's wrong with that? That's what you're supposed to do.
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Jamroll, I only meant males who can't deal with their own problems. Not males who love and respect their parents  |
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Re: Sisters, would you sign a prenuptial agreement?
Family ties are important.
When life is tough, everyone goes back to their parents.
When your spouse leaves, dies, runs off with the kids, you go back to your parents. When you've lost your job, you go back to your parents.
When you've fallen ill and there's no one else to look after you, you go back to your parents.
When there's no food in the house you go to your parents.
If you fall down and scrape your knee, you go to your parents. It's what normal people do. It doesn't make one jelly spined.
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Re: Sisters, would you sign a prenuptial agreement?
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And men like the originator of this post, who feel inadequate when challenged by women, only because of an inferiority complex. They feel so inadequate, that they have to strike back by taking advantage of the "power" they've been given by God. Which really isn't a "power," but rather a "trust."
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I don't think the OP feels inadequate or challenged by women as much, but rather he is calling for a return to traditionalism, to eradicate a lot of the problems we find in modern society, such as wives speaking without the husband's permission to engage in backchat, and making "decisions", and other such evil things which are caused by Shaytaan.
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I also believe that men who are domestic abusers, for instance, are rather soft-spined cowards who only exert force over their "loved ones" because they are, in reality, very weak.
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May I ask what your fascination is with spines? Are you a chiropractor by any chance?
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I don't think the OP feels inadequate or challenged by women as much, but rather he is calling for a return to traditionalism, to eradicate a lot of the problems we find in modern society, such as wives speaking without the husband's permission to engage in backchat, and making "decisions", and other such evil things which are caused by Shaytaan.
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I assume you're being sarcastic 
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Ya, I meant it ended horribly in that they got screwed. If it's going to end, no piece of paper can prevent that. But having a document that proves she is entitled to certain things is definitely something they wished the had had.
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One of our family friend's daughter got divorced a few years back. She was really lucky that she had a pre-nup.The jerk tried to dump all his student loans on her but because they had a pre-nup she was protected from him taking all her assets. Islamically as far as I know the man has no right over the woman's money and everything she makes and contributes to the family is considered sadaqa. In the legal system it's whoever makes more most of the time ends up having to pay alimony in divorce. |
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Jaysh's ideal wife:
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naw, you know that for all his big talk, as soon as he get's married he's gunna be totally under HER foot, and will work on every item of her "honey do" list with pleasure, and then ask "please dear, can I do some more"
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"honey do" list  my old boss used to say that
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That drawing on your website is both creepy and hilarious so its all about the beard huh? Interesting.
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Re: Sisters, would you sign a prenuptial agreement?
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naw, you know that for all his big talk, as soon as he get's married he's gunna be totally under HER foot, and will work on every item of her "honey do" list with pleasure, and then ask "please dear, can I do some more"
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This is more like it...
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"I always get the last word," said Nasrudin. "My wife tells me to do something and I say, 'Okay'."
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Disregarding any other post in this thread save the first- yes, I would have her sign it. When I'm ruler of the world I don't really want to have to give her 50%, now do I? Knowing her lawyers, she'd end up with the good half.
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