[thejellymill]

Originally Posted by ShahRukh

Well! Well!

....you know why there are so many black single mothers out there?



p.s. You're a black chick....so I don't blame ya!

umm.. you're acting retarded and this topic is totally dumb and pointless.

byyye!

[shadha]

Shah: Well! Well!
....you know why there are so many black single mothers out there?

Because we don't roll over when they tap our shoulders?


shadha-

[ShahRukh]

Originally Posted by thejellymill

umm.. you're acting retarded and this topic is totally dumb and pointless.

byyye!

How old are you again..?? Like 13??


That was a response to Shadha, not you.

Even 13 year olds can read better here...


You're clearly neither intelligent nor cool enough to take a racial joke cleverly.

Just Shut Up and go post in the general ramblings or something...

Originally Posted by shadha

Shah: Well! Well!
....you know why there are so many black single mothers out there?

Because we don't roll over when they tap our shoulders?


shadha-

Haha...could be a part of it.

I was trying to draw a correlation b/w black women being rebellious and high divorce rates...

Black men are clearly not angels either...their promiscous behaviour is a huge part of the problem.

[MuslimahDaTurkish]

Originally Posted by ShahRukh

To the single ladies:

If you ever get into a major argument/fight with your spouse, and you're not talking, would you still make him breakfast/lunch or prepare dinner for him, and do other favours, even though you're despising each other atm..?

he will probably be the one cooking
but if i am wrong, i would do him a favor..
if i am right, hell no i wouldnt

[Spice]

I'd make the salans really, really spicey

Kidding

[shadha]

Shah: Haha...could be a part of it.
I was trying to draw a correlation b/w black women being rebellious and high divorce rates...
Black men are clearly not angels either...their promiscous behaviour is a huge part of the problem.

Rebellious? We're not rebellious. Us being sure of ourselves and how we want to be treated is not being rebellious and it certainly does not play into the high divorce rates.

When people start acting trifeling, that's when you see the relationship hit the fan.


shadha-

[iTz_NoT_Me_iTzZu]

Originally Posted by ShahRukh

How old are you again..?? Like 13??


That was a response to Shadha, not you.

Even 13 year olds can read better here...


You're clearly neither intelligent nor cool enough to take a racial joke cleverly.

Just Shut Up and go post in the general ramblings or something...

Stop being a jackass.



...and to answer your question: if he said something that hurtful then he better be taking me out to dinner

[nooni]

Originally Posted by heba

if he ever cursed me and my parents id throw him out the house, and id make sure its on a day where his car isnt working and its pouring rain outside.

[Spice]

Originally Posted by ShahRukh

Well! What if you did something terribly wrong that pissed the heck out of him....and he ends up cursing you and your parents...something perhaps even worse than that...what would you do in that scenario?

Only an idiot would do that. No one in their right minds curses their spouses family, that's probably the lowest level. Not only is it disrespectful, childish but also probably serves to make things rockier than they already are. not classy.
and If that were to happen to me, I'd lose a lot of respect for him, but I wouldnt stop 'cooking' () though I wouldnt be as eager to prepare it, and I'm sure he'd taste the lack of love in his food.

EDIT: Also, if that were to happen, then the couple would need to accept that there's probably a bigger issue at hand. and trying to get him back by not cooking is childish. Sit him down and talk it out, homies.

[Purple_alien]

Wow. Um, I am kinda spiteful, so in all honesty, if I got into an argument with my hubby, he better be prepared to eat out. But then, I have no intention of doing that much cooking anyway. And other favors are kind of out the window too. I have been known to not talk to people for months because they hurt my feelings.

[vegetables]

Dude don't even touch her family. I know someone who got mad and sent disturbing insults/threats to his in-laws. It affected his career, education and his own family.. even up to this day his educational and financial opportunities are severely limited because of what he did/said.

[Zeinab]

Originally Posted by vegetables

Dude don't even touch her family. I know someone who got mad and sent disturbing insults/threats to his in-laws. It affected his career, education and his own family.. even up to this day his educational and financial opportunities are severely limited because of what he did/said.

Wow. Just deserts, methinks.

[Bruinrab]

I think my spouse might actually appreciate if I stopped cooking.

[sally]

i'd be really interested in hearing guys' responses on the same issue..tables turned and all.

[MossadConspiracy]

Originally Posted by sally

i'd be really interested in hearing guys' responses on the same issue..tables turned and all.

i wont be making dinner or breakfast very often either way

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