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Re: "Rain Over Surabaya" (Kona Silat Reporting from Indonesia)
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That is true. I have noticed that you may "click" when you are talking on the phone or through instant messanger, but that doesnt mean you have actualy physical "chemistry". I think its amazing that in 2008 we do not have proper terms for "clicking" with someone, or having great "chemistry".  |
We do...its called lust. 
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Re: "Rain Over Surabaya" (Kona Silat Reporting from Indonesia)
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synergetic interface?
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Asslamu Alaikum,
i just finished with fajar prayer and reciting yaseen. I appreciate the advice everyone has given me and i will give it some time before i leave. yes everything has been halal between me and her ex ept thoughts of playing mind games. i have thought about telling her a lie about me leaving early to see her reaction. i did hint at it and she asked why but i kept a closed mouth about it. i did spend time with her last night at an ice cream store and we talked for an hour before she had to leave for a company gathering. i am considering playing headgames but i dont know. i am going to jummah prayers here at one of the largest masjids here.i will make a video.
variable, youll see the videoes - provided my camera is not stolen. you can ask the mods about my ip address.
again i appreciate the responses. it is tough typing on a mobile device.
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sorry to hear that bro.  i guess, love tests us in great extend..even.. if needs arises it would tear our heart open and boil its sample in the testtube and watch it ........ dammitttt...
 be strong bro and move on..she's probably not ready..
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Re: "Rain Over Surabaya" (Kona Silat Reporting from Indonesia)
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We do...its called lust. |
ummmmmm no.
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Re: "Rain Over Surabaya" (Kona Silat Reporting from Indonesia)
Hahahaha....
Next Episode: Clouds Over Bali
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Plot: Kona meets his future wife at the airport and instantly falls in love with her. but the girl turns out to be an actress. Kona must fight his parents, the girl's film producer, and his future evil Mother in Law to win her heart. Will Kona succeed this time?
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Re: "Rain Over Surabaya" (Kona Silat Reporting from Indonesia)
salam
cant you people tell that the entire story is make believe?
he was going to indonesia so he made up this romance story to laugh at gullible people in a smug manner
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Well it's better to give someone the benefit of the doubt. After if all he is your muslim brother, and he seems to be in pain, then you should be there for him.
If anybody lies and continues to tell lies all the time, cause they're "joking" LOL, then they have Allah to answer.
As for some of the other comments on here, like people saying "get over it" or words to that effective.
What happened to all the dreamers out there LOL?
Everybody is just a badass these days, they act as if its not such a big thing to lose someone you love.
Ofcourse it's a part of life that we'll lose people we love, due to circumstances or death.
Seriously when one of you falls in love really deeply you'll know how it feels like LOL.
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Well it's better to give someone the benefit of the doubt. After if all he is your muslim brother, and he seems to be in pain, then you should be there for him.
If anybody lies and continues to tell lies all the time, cause they're "joking" LOL, then they have Allah to answer.
As for some of the other comments on here, like people saying "get over it" or words to that effective.
What happened to all the dreamers out there LOL?
Everybody is just a badass these days, they act as if its not such a big thing to lose someone you love.
Ofcourse it's a part of life that we'll lose people we love, due to circumstances or death.
Seriously when one of you falls in love really deeply you'll know how it feels like LOL.
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Awesome post mang
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That is true. I have noticed that you may "click" when you are talking on the phone or through instant messanger, but that doesnt mean you have actualy physical "chemistry". I think its amazing that in 2008 we do not have proper terms for "clicking" with someone, or having great "chemistry". |
you being in love
will tell who softly asks in love,
am i separated from your body smile brain hands merely
to become the jumping puppets of a dream? oh i mean:
entirely having in my careful how
careful arms created this at length
inexcusable, this inexplicable pleasure-you go from several
persons: believe me that strangers arrive
when i have kissed you into a memory
slowly, oh seriously
-that since and if you disappear
solemnly
myselves
ask "life, the question how do i drink dream smile
and how do i prefer this face to another and
why do i weep eat sleep-what does the whole intend"
they wonder. oh and they cry "to be, being, that i am alive
this absurd fraction in its lowest terms
with everything cancelled
but shadows
-what does it all come down to? love? Love
if you like and i like,for the reason that i
hate people and lean out of this window is love,love
and the reason that i laugh and breathe is oh love and the reason
that i do not fall into this street is love."
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Re: "Rain Over Surabaya" (Kona Silat Reporting from Indonesia)
Love is patience and patience is a virtue.
In other words, be patience. Good things happens to those that wait.
If it turns out that she’s not the one then she isn’t. Don’t ponder on it. Obviously the right one is waiting for you. She’ll come, just believe in yourself.
That sucks for you.
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There isn't a snowball's chance in hell that I'd risk committing the rest of my life to a person I didn't know well enough to form emotional attachment to. Every marriage is a leap of faith -- but there has to be something about the person that makes them different from everybody else on the street and makes that leap worth it.
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This is for you and others that had asked me to elaborate. I'm not implying you shouldn't get to know your potential spouses, by all means find out everything you need to know about them. try the 100 pre-marital questions on sunni path,
BUT...make sure you keep them at an arms length...if you find yourself getting emotionally involved, get married immediately or stop being so intimate! Islamic protocol exists for a reason, it protects our sanity. If we got attached to every rishta then we we'd be too emotionally drained to offer our spouses what they deserve.
Trust me, real love enters your heart the moment you get married. This is from Allah swt..and its the real deal, yo.
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Trust me, real love enters your heart the moment you get married. This is from Allah swt..and its the real deal, yo.
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Althoooough...
I just saw this movie, The Heartbreak Kid.... YouTube - The Heartbreak Kid Trailer
I think there's wisdom in that too.
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This is for you and others that had asked me to elaborate. I'm not implying you shouldn't get to know your potential spouses, by all means find out everything you need to know about them. try the 100 pre-marital questions on sunni path,
BUT...make sure you keep them at an arms length...if you find yourself getting emotionally involved, get married immediately or stop being so intimate! Islamic protocol exists for a reason, it protects our sanity. If we got attached to every rishta then we we'd be too emotionally drained to offer our spouses what they deserve.
Trust me, real love enters your heart the moment you get married. This is from Allah swt..and its the real deal, yo.
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yeah right!!!
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assalamu alaykum
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This is for you and others that had asked me to elaborate. I'm not implying you shouldn't get to know your potential spouses, by all means find out everything you need to know about them. try the 100 pre-marital questions on sunni path,
BUT...make sure you keep them at an arms length...if you find yourself getting emotionally involved, get married immediately or stop being so intimate! Islamic protocol exists for a reason, it protects our sanity. If we got attached to every rishta then we we'd be too emotionally drained to offer our spouses what they deserve.
Trust me, real love enters your heart the moment you get married. This is from Allah swt..and its the real deal, yo.
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define what u mean by being ''emotionally involved''. I really think you're being a little idealistic. I wouldn't put such dreams into peoples minds...that they'll be overwhelmed with ''true love'' the moment u get married. How does that even work? Maintaining no ''attachement'' for months leading up the wedding and then the moment they accept they're filled with love. Slightly delusional.
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