The Perfect girl

the_only_one · #1 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 09:50 PM

salams,

post away!

*we'll take notes *

wasalaams

ShahRukh · #2 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 09:59 PM

girl and perfect? hahahah

in janath only.

IbnMardhiyah · #3 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by ShahRukh

girl and perfect? hahahah

in janath only.

co-signed ...

wheelworks · #4 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:03 PM

Guys don't talk about the perfect girl. Heck we don't even know how to describe her. We just KNOW when we meet her.

That is all

...donchaknow

sally · #5 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ShahRukh

girl and perfect? hahahah

in janath only.

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Originally Posted by IbnMardhiyah

co-signed ...

was yalls last meal cooked by an imperfect girl cook who left out the salt?

cuz that would explain the bitterness

the_only_one · #6 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by wheelworks

Guys don't talk about the perfect girl. Heck we don't even know how to describe her. We just KNOW when we meet her.

That is all

...donchaknow

you're awesome.mA

your opinion mostly coincide with majority of the male gender. since guys are often confused and cluelessas about their own preferences . the only criteria they've is "hotness" what a shame really..

anyhoo, ive spoken to my guy relatives..things they often mention are:

with good character (kindness, patience, truthful, ahlaq)
smart with money handling
good looking of course
humility- if she's hot ,she doesnt know she's hot (dont ask me how does that work)
competent to run a household on her own
well educated (atleast she's capable of home-schooling the kids, if worse comes to worse)
can fill the belly with yummy food-good cook. (doesnt have to be good as my mom)
knows/holds somewhat interest in politics & sports
minds her own business-not a typical drama queen
doesnt have a "bad mouth" ie doesnt do ghaybah and helps prevent it
open minded-about my intermingling at work
appreciates my mother- thats a good one
is a hijabi

please note: theyre not in any particular order. thanks

vegetables · #7 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:18 PM

doods... i have a feeling this thread is some sort of trap for us men. no good will come of any answer here. this is quickly approaching "do i look fat" territory

the_only_one · #8 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by vegetables

doods... i have a feeling this thread is some sort of trap for us men. no good will come of any answer here. this is quickly approaching "do i look fat" territory

who said, its a trap?

feel free to post

wheelworks · #9 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:21 PM

With regards to cooking...
The wifey will never cook good food for you. Her best food will be made once she gets kids and even then the food will be made with the kids in mind. The Husband will just be lucky enough to share it

IbnMardhiyah · #10 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:22 PM

Can you define "perfect girl" first without listing desirable qualities?

wheelworks · #11 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by IbnMardhiyah

Can you define "perfect girl" first without listing desirable qualities?

Can you define the Pope as a Catholic without defining him as a Christian?

Rida · #12 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:25 PM

Has anyone read the descriptions of the hur's in tirmidhi shareef?

Someone at a high spiritual level would be okay for this world (and the next inshaAllah).

Wassalaam

p.s. Oh and some other stuff which is obviously inappropriate to discuss on a web forum.

the_only_one · #13 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Rida

Has anyone read the descriptions of the hur's in tirmidhi shareef?

Someone at a high spiritual level would be okay for this world (and the next inshaAllah) though.

Wassalaam

p.s. Oh and some other stuff which is obviously inappropriate to discuss on a web forum.

has anyone read ideal muslimah and ideal muslim. totally worth a read. iA

rida- yes, ive read that...hey we're talkng about duniyaiiii wife, not a janati hur

ok, i hear ya. i wont ask you more on this subject.

Rida · #14 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by the_only_one

has anyone read ideal muslimah and ideal muslim. totally worth a read. iA

rida- yes, ive read that...hey we're talkng about duniyaiiii wife, not a janati hur

ok, i hear ya. i wont ask you more on this subject.

Remember that the women who enter paradise will be at an even higher level (in all aspects) than 100 or more hurs.

Wassalaam

the_only_one · #15 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by IbnMardhiyah

Can you define "perfect girl" first without listing desirable qualities?

dumb question. but i'll try.

all the desirable qualities in her defines her as a perfect girl.considerng how definitation of perfect is quite subjective. hence, it cant have one single definition.

thanks.