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so how about you both stop talking about me? you two are acting like overgrown babies.
ibn: trent used me as an example probably because I'm not argumentative and yes, ibn, you were rather rude and pushy with the point you were making..mind you, I said I don't want people talking for me.
trent: as for you, I'm sure you and I agree on many points in this thread and I might be one of the least judgmental people here but you need to stop referring to your sexlife on islamica. keep it between you and your lady friend, man.
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03-02-2008, 04:12 PM
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I think we can safely say the perfect girl does not post on islamica.
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03-02-2008, 04:51 PM
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I think we can safely say the perfect girl does not post on islamica.
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Perfect is BORING ..im glad its not me i liek to be quirky 
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03-02-2008, 05:06 PM
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assalamu alaykum
Some people here are acting as though Paradise is a male-orientated place. It won't be: it's not this world, alhamdulilah. The women and men will both be happy...and I'm quite ecstatic my husband isn't a chauvanistic, womanising twit like some of the ''men'' in here.
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03-02-2008, 05:09 PM
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Asalaamualaikum,
The Idea of perfect is relative to the person. What some might consider endearing traits others might consider annoying. As for myself, i consider a girl with a good head over her shoulders, i.e. a sense of religous belonging and knowing right and wrong, a unique sense of humour, someone kind of like myself i suppose as "perfect." Allahu allam, I think whoever Allah(SWT) guides me to would be the "perfect" one. Besides, perfection can not be achieved in this life anyway. So you take the bad and the good and try to compromise.
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03-02-2008, 05:27 PM
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This is part of the reason but the real reason is that the idea of a man sharing his wife with other men is downright disgusting from a truly moral point of view. On the other hand, a man's desiring and marrying more than one wife is not immoral, for men and women are different.
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 I find the idea of my husband "enjoying" other women to be totally disgusting.  Whether those women are earthly or heavenly is totally irrelevant to me. And many other women, I'm sure.
P.S. I'm sorry for starting all this drama. 
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each of you is perfect in your own way
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geez. Way to NOT be the perfect girl.
You should be ashamed.
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very diplomatic ya wad.
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I think we should just stop thinking about someone elses descriptions of Jannah that disgust us, because descriptions of Jannah are supposed to create longing for the person to work for it and not revulsion.
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Thats a really good point. We should stop putting our own interpetations to Allahs words and just wait and see.
JazakAllah Khair for the reminder.
Thinking about it the description of Houris probably was to relate the notion of Paradise to the Hijaz Arabs, where thier culture was one of many spouses. Jannah is a place where your desires are fufilled, to some men and women its physical, others its intellectual stimulation and to some its everything. I don't really think we can comprehend its majesty, even with the brief descriptions oin the Quran. I hope y'all are catching my drift.
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geez. Way to NOT be the perfect girl.
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hiiiii.. you're cute.
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03-02-2008, 07:51 PM
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trent: as for you, I'm sure you and I agree on many points in this thread and I might be one of the least judgmental people here but you need to stop referring to your sexlife on islamica. keep it between you and your lady friend, man.
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Will do ma'am 
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So, what was this thread supposed to be about again?
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was yalls last meal cooked by an imperfect girl cook who left out the salt?
cuz that would explain the bitterness
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silly, salt doesn't get rid of bitterness, acid does. You want to get rid of bitterness you add a little vinegar or lemon juice, since bitterness is usually sign of basicity. Vinegar or lemon juice are acidic, so they cut the bitterness right out.
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