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Yes! thats cute. 5 38.46%
No. 'coz im shy too that would suck. 2 15.38%
im lame no one will marry me. 4 30.77%
i'll rep you. 0 0%
azher should delete any pertaining 'marriage' or 'would u marry' threads 2 15.38%
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Old 02-18-2008, 10:40 PM
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omg i think i'd die if my husband cried
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i am the queen of double standards..and dammit. i like it this way.
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itz: meh.. I don't even cry during love stories! My sister thinks I'm a robot because I didn't cry during the notebook

Robot indeed.

I always cry anytime something is just so cute.

What always gets me is when a child cries out for his or her parents like, "MOMMMMM!!!!!!". Oh my gosh, I feel the sensation engulf my body and I just start bawling.


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I have never had the opportunity of knowing any straight guys that bawl about commercials. So I think such extremes isn't really under consideration unless I wanted to make a point by using asinine and outlandish examples.
But of course such insensitivity, judgmental and wide brushes of generalization about fellow human beings isn't something I think my lovely and beautiful Muslim sisters would do nor would I put my standard so low.
And Alhumdullah, I do concur on the point that crying because of death, etc, is natural--nevertheless, I do know some guys who stop themselves from that even. I think it's a dumbing down of a one of the most beautiful things about humans: sensitive and insightful intellect.
I wouldn't mind either if my husband sometimes just had teary eyes looking at me since inshAllah he would be apart of my soul.

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Terminator II was pretty emotional. The end scene with the thumbs up
I was thinking more the part where he shot up all the cop cars. I become emotional when mini guns are tearing things up


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Asalaamualaikum,

Wait this thread wasnt about Shy Guys from the Nintendo games? I have been cheated!
By the way I am shy!

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shy guys need love too

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Asalaamualaikum,

Wait this thread wasnt about Shy Guys from the Nintendo games? I have been cheated!
By the way I am shy!

Asalaamualaikum,

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I used to be shy n all but then I woke up one day and saw the *light*.
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I used to be shy n all but then I woke up one day and saw the *light*.
The rickshaw driver and his headlight brought out the wild child in you, huh?
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Scenario as follows: You(Girl) extremely extrovert whereas the guy is introvert+passive material.
This what 90% of western marriages are like.
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Asalaamualaikum,

Wait this thread wasnt about Shy Guys from the Nintendo games? I have been cheated!
By the way I am shy!

Asalaamualaikum,

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Astaghfirullah brother, Batman can't afford to be shy
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"I don't want no fly guy
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Shyness is not a good attribute and should not be treated as such. Neither is arrogance or haughtiness.

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Shyness is not a good attribute ...
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It's actually a very good attribute as regards to the opposite gender
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I like a man with confidence and a bit of charm ....

My husband is confident and charming.

I love him

If he were shy, I'm not sure... I don't think I like shy guys... I mean there is a difference between shy and introverted. Someone could be quiet but incredibly good at finding other ways to people.

When I imagine shy, I imagine someone with a lack of self confidence. I could be wrong, that's how it is in my mind.
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