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Re: Cousin Marriages in the West
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Yeah, we really have to stop with the inbreeding.

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like I picture if I were to have kids would I want mine getting "involved" with my own sisters kids
Answer: noooooo wayyyyyyyy 
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05-19-2008, 03:14 PM
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I'm pretty sure Louisiana should be green as well.
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I'm pretty sure Louisiana should be green as well.
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heheheh... Luisiana/Arkansas/Ozarks should have their OWN colour.
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05-20-2008, 08:19 AM
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Re: Cousin Marriages in the West
I say we all take a break from cousin-marriages... just for one generation. This time around, nobody marries their cousins.
But when you have kids, make them marry your siblings' kids. My future kids are already betrothed to my brother's future kids.

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05-20-2008, 10:32 AM
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I say we all take a break from cousin-marriages... just for one generation. This time around, nobody marries their cousins.
But when you have kids, make them marry your siblings' kids. My future kids are already betrothed to my brother's future kids.

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how about 2 generations, Do I hear 2 generations???
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Yepp, I'm betrothing my kids the moment theyre born. No shady 'rishta process' or 'looking for a spouse' thing for them. Its from my leash to their spouses.
OR, I'd just let them believe they're already betrothed to someone but insist I cannot tell them to whom so soon. And then get them married off to whomever I find fit and tell them "That was taqdeer, God made you for each other, see? I told you!"
OR keep them well locked up in their rooms and let them out the morning of the nikkah! 
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My future kids are already betrothed to my brother's future kids.

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I can't tell if you're joking or not
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how about 2 generations, Do I hear 2 generations???
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No. Even one is pushing it.
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Yepp, I'm betrothing my kids the moment theyre born. No shady 'rishta process' or 'looking for a spouse' thing for them. Its from my leash to their spouses.
OR, I'd just let them believe they're already betrothed to someone but insist I cannot tell them to whom so soon. And then get them married off to whomever I find fit and tell them "That was taqdeer, God made you for each other, see? I told you!"
OR keep them well locked up in their rooms and let them out the morning of the nikkah! 
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Why would I joke about such a serious matter?

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you're such a pushover. You should also be planning the rishta's of your grandkids. Looser. 
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And I can't do that yet.
See, if my brother changes his mind at the last minute and doesn't give me his daughter for marriage to my son, then I'm not going to give him my daughter either. And I'll give my daughter to my sister's son and I'll give my son to my younger brother.
And my sister and younger brother will boycott my big brother too (won't give or get kids to/from him) and then we won't invite him to the double-wedding and then we'll stop talking to him for years and years and years... until he's on his deathbed.
Then we can decide about the grandkids. 'Cause then in the spirit of reconciliation, he'll want to give me all his grandkids, see?
Deathbeds are the optimal place to make major decisions concerning the lives of your offspring.

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And I can't do that yet.
See, if my brother changes his mind at the last minute and doesn't give me his daughter for marriage to my son, then I'm not going to give him my daughter either. And I'll give my daughter to my sister's son and I'll give my son to my younger brother.
And my sister and younger brother will boycott my big brother too (won't give or get kids to/from him) and then we won't invite him to the double-wedding and then we'll stop talking to him for years and years and years... until he's on his deathbed.
Then we can decide about the grandkids. 'Cause then in the spirit of reconciliation, he'll want to give me all his grandkids, see?
Deathbeds are the optimal place to make major decisions concerning the lives of your offspring.

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yeah bradford is like mirpuri-ville of the uk...the neurological diseases may be due to the messed up barelvi pir culture...
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Ouch, well if one of the your grandkids has an illnesses don't be upset if he take his frustrations out on you
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Ouch, well if one of the your grandkids has an illnesses don't be upset if he take his frustrations out on you
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Dude, there's nothing wrong with marrying cousins.
And what kind of disrespectful little toe-rag would blame his grandma for his illness?
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