If you are a.. would you marry a?

[Rida]

as Salaamu alaikum,

If you follow a madhab would you marry someone who didn't adhere to a madhab?
If you do not follow a madhab would you marry someone who does adhere to one?
If you follow a particular sufi tariqa would you marry someone who follows a different tariqa?
If you don't follow a sufi tariqa would you marry someone who did?
If you are a deobandi would you marry a brelvi?
If you are a brelvi would you marry a deobandi?
If you are an arab hanafi would you marry a sub-continent hanafi?
If you are a sub-continent hanafi would you marry an arab hanafi?
If you are sunni would you marry a shia (that isn't considered outside the folds of Islam by scholars)?
If you were an egg would you marry a jinnzaman?
If you were a jinnzaman would you marry an egg?
If you were....

I'm all out for now. Maybe more later

Wassalaam

[nooni]

u need a better hobby

[Timbit]

I picked the ones that applied to me and am going to answer them now:

Rida said

If you follow a madhab would you marry someone who didn't adhere to a madhab?

No. 'Cause what are they then? Salafi?
Or they pick and choose rulings?

Rida said

If you don't follow a sufi tariqa would you marry someone who did?

Yes. Sufis are cool.

Rida said

If you are a deobandi would you marry a brelvi?
If you are a brelvi would you marry a deobandi?

I dunno which one I am but...maybe. It depends on the person.

Rida said

If you are a sub-continent hanafi would you marry an arab hanafi?

Yes. Or even somebody who follows a different madhab. Hanafis are preferred, of course, but as long as they follow one...

Rida said

If you are sunni would you marry a shia (that isn't considered outsides the folds of Islam by scholars)?

Yes.

As long as they don't believe in mutaah and don't beat themselves up too bad on Ashura. And don't curse the Companions or certain members of the Prophet's family.
And as long as they don't habitually combine prayers and only pray three times a day.

[Rida]

nooni said

u need a better hobby

Yeah i know, but eh..
Family's been getting rishta's from some of the diff categories mentioned above and i was curious what everyone else would do thats all.

Wassalaam

[Timbit]

Oh...

Would you marry a Qur'an-only person?

I wouldn't.

[Timbit]

Would you marry a TJ-er?

[Rida]

Timbit said

Would you marry a TJ-er?

I bet that's a tough decision for women because the hubby would most probably be away for long periods of time in chilla's.

[Revert]

Timbit, Salafis do adhere to madhabs..the Hanbali madhaab.

Rida said

If you follow a madhab would you marry someone who didn't adhere to a madhab?

Yup and Did.

[Revert]

Timbit said

Oh...

Would you marry a Qur'an-only person?

I wouldn't.

Yes and Did.

[Timbit]

Rida said

I bet that's a tough decision for women because the hubby would most probably be away for long periods of time in chilla's.

Yeah, and plus, they're kinda annoying.
Revert: Your wife doesn't follow a madhab and doesn't believe in hadiths?

[IbnMardhiyah]

As long as she's Muslim and prays 5x a day and commits to all the other faraa'id, that's enough for me.

if she's of a diff. madhab, it doesnt matter to me, a different ethnic background, doesnt matter, as long as we like each others looks and personalities, and we're cool with our inter-Islamic differences

[Revert]

Timbit said

Yeah, and plus, they're kinda annoying.
Revert: Your wife doesn't follow a madhab and doesn't believe in hadiths?

She didn't follow a madhab no..not intentionally, she wasn't aware of hadiths, not that shes didn't beleive in them.

Shes a shafi'i in fiqh as when she asks a question or is stuck on somehting i refer it to the scholars i trust.

[the_only_one]

Rida said

as Salaamu alaikum,

If you follow a madhab would you marry someone who didn't adhere to a madhab?If you do not follow a madhab would you marry someone who does adhere to one?
If you follow a particular sufi tariqa would you marry someone who follows a different tariqa?
If you don't follow a sufi tariqa would you marry someone who did?If you are a deobandi would you marry a brelvi?
If you are a brelvi would you marry a deobandi?
If you are an arab hanafi would you marry a sub-continent hanafi?
If you are a sub-continent hanafi would you marry an arab hanafi?
If you are sunni would you marry a shia (that isn't considered outsides the folds of Islam by scholars)?
If you were an egg would you marry a jinnzaman?
If you were a jinnzaman would you marry an egg?
If you were....

I'm all out for now. Maybe more later

Wassalaam

The only highlighted ones applies to my current situation. my answers as follows:
no.

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[ShahRukh]

Timbit said

Would you marry a TJ-er?

Yes. and did.

[sally]

If you follow a madhab would you marry someone who didn't adhere to a madhab? very likely i wouldn't, no.


If you are a deobandi would you marry a brelvi? astaghfirullah..i mean, maybe after pulling my hair out.

If you are a brelvi would you marry a deobandi? WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD I WANNA BE BARELVI? jk anyways, deobandis are love. all barelvis wanna get with deobandis secretly.

all the other questions are lame/boring/non applicable