[displaced]

Originally Posted by Aryan_

Why are you in a relationship anyway...isn't that "haram". Or is that only relevant when it comes to hanky panky?

who made you haram police?

[Aminah2006]

Originally Posted by displaced

I must be in agreement with him. you're so smart!



2adeema yakhty. I've heard that proverb. and if you don't want to be in a situation, you don't put yourself in the situation. i.e. if they weren't chilling in private, there couldn't be cuddling.

OHHHHH? I asked, are you in agreement with him perhaps? (notice the " are you " and the "perhaps" with a question mark)
now you say that you are?

OK, then a female muslim should never be alone with a male muslim?

[Vinto-geno]

Originally Posted by shadha

If you're uncomfortable, say no. If he can't respect you or your faith to accept that and back down until marriage, then he isn't worth your time. He's just a desperate dude trying to guilt you into giving him some free milk. Tell him to piss off.


shadha-

true that!

[displaced]

Originally Posted by Aminah2006

OHHHHH? I asked, (notice the perhaps with a question mark) now you say that you are?

they call it sarcasm. na2wara.

OK, then a female muslim should never be alone with a male muslim?

if she wants to avoid potential situations like that, then yes..she shouldn't be in chilling with a guy in private.

[Variable]

Originally Posted by Aminah2006

... when a man and a woman are alone together, the third one present will be the Shayran (Satan), working to implant mischief between the two.

Nahaha. That's my favourite line.

[Aminah2006]

Originally Posted by displaced

they call it sarcasm. na2wara.



if she wants to avoid potential situations like that, then yes..she shouldn't be in chilling with a guy in private.

Tsk, too bad you are sarcastic.
What is 2adeema yakhty. and na2wara. ?

[displaced]

Originally Posted by Aminah2006

Tsk, too bad you are sarcastic.
What is 2adeema yakhty. and na2wara. ?

nevermind. since you weren't picking up on my english, I tried arabic.

[ShahRukh]

Is it fair to arrive at a conclusion based on limited info from one side? And is it morally/ethically just, not to mention rational, to declare someone corrupt using demeaning words in their absence, without having the option to hear their side of the story?


Also, Isn't it always the guys fault, really?


Note: For the slow minded individuals, I am just playing as a defense here...

[Aminah2006]

Originally Posted by displaced

nevermind. since you weren't picking up on my english, I tried arabic.

Sorry for that, neither language is my native tongue.
Good advice I think, that last you gave though.
"if she wants to avoid potential situations like that, then yes..she shouldn't be in chilling with a guy in private."
But how does one know until something like that happens....I would hope the Brothers would protect the Sisters.....not reality is it?

[Aminah2006]

Originally Posted by wheelworks

Just thought I'd mention that Cheetos has ingredients derived from animal enzymes and are therefore haram donchaknow

Ekkk! Thanks for the info..

[Timbit]

Originally Posted by ShahRukh

Also, Isn't it always the guys fault, really?

No.

[ShahRukh]

Originally Posted by displaced

let's not get carried away and paint the guy as the devil incarnate.

btw, lets not paint the girl as a sinless angel either. b/c she choose to go out with the guy alone shows her comfort boundaries when it comes committing haram, and the guy probably took it as a positive sign and was trying to take the haramness to a level that fits his comfort boundaries. and all of a sudden the girl gets freaked out by his advances and starts looking for help instead of identifying her initial mistake...

I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head with that post.

I'm just surprized as to how some of the resident militant feminizas didn't give you as harsh of a response as they gave me. perhaps its due to the special *implicit* love they have for the female gender..eh?

[zzze]

assalamu alaykum

no, it's because she's hot and ur not

[displaced]

Originally Posted by ShahRukh

btw, lets not paint the girl as a sinless angel either. b/c she choose to go out with the guy alone shows her comfort boundaries when it comes committing haram, and the guy probably took it as a positive sign and was trying to take the haramness to a level that fits his comfort boundaries. and all of a sudden the girl gets freaked out by his advances and starts looking for help instead of identifying her initial mistake...

I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head with that post.

I'm just surprized as to how some of the resident militant feminizas didn't give you as harsh of a response as they gave me. perhaps its due to the special *implicit* love they have for the female gender..eh?

well I WAS voted fph's biggest tomboy, y'know.

[Jamroll]

ShahRukh is the new Got5.