Getting frisky before marriage?

MuslimZ · #61 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by wheelworks

donchaknow

I am so tempted to begin abusing my mod powers.

wheelworks · #62 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by MuslimZ

I am so tempted to begin abusing my mod powers.

Overcome your temptations old chappie, you'll become a stronger wiser man donchaknow

PhDGirl · #63 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by MuslimZ

I am so tempted to begin abusing my mod powers.

Yeah I can see why.

wheelworks · #64 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by PhDGirl

Yeah I can see why.

A lot of Islamicans' buttons are too easy to push

displaced · #65 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by wheelworks

A lot of Islamicans' buttons are too easy to push

no..not really. maybe your "dontchaknow"s got lame after the second time you tacked it onto a post.

MossadConspiracy · #66 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 01:57 PM

everybody in the club getting frisky

sally · #67 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MossadConspiracy

everybody in the club getting frisky

isn't it tipsy?

MossadConspiracy · #68 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 02:08 PM

oh my god i hate girls so much

yes its tipsy

Haramoobobi · #69 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Whatyosayin

Salaams,

Is it normal these days for people to HAVE to get physical with their potential husband/wife before marriage? I have been getting to know someone in the past few weeks, and he keeps trying to get me to get physical with him, even though he knows my values, and how I feel about it. He says he understands, but when I told him I dont think it is right to cuddle and kiss and hold hands before marriage, he replied, "If you think you can justify it to yourself". OF COURSE I can justify it to myself, how can you justify zina to yourself? If you pray regularly, but also commit zina, dont you feel like less of a Muslim? That you are betraying Allah swt and what He decreed for us humans not to succumb to our desires? If a guy really likes a girl, and is interested in her for marriage, would he really make her feel guilty or feel asexual and prudish for not wanting to do anything before marriage? He asked me what I thought about his lips, or if I noticed them. Do guys ask these things to girls who are religious? He also told me that is very understanding of things, but these needs are important to him. What about what is important to Allah swt? It seems like most Muslims these days seem to not consider zina as a sin anymore. Am I overreacting or is this the norm these days?

he obvious doesn't respect you.

leave him.

marriage is about love and respect, without respect and understanding, love becomes a poison until it becomes hate, jealously--and other perverse forms of love.

Sabz · #70 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 03:43 PM

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Sabz - yes he is desi but I dont think that makes a difference. Guys from all ethnicities can be dawgs.

sister you have so much to learn
- cultural desis NO GO AREA
- Molimist desis HAPPY GO AREA
- cultural/moslimist desis FIRE! FIRE! FIRE!

full stop.

PhDGirl · #71 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by MossadConspiracy

oh my god i hate girls so much

Then you ought to stop posting in FPH.

Sabz, what are you talking about?

Whatyosayin · #72 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 03:55 PM

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sister you have so much to learn
- cultural desis NO GO AREA
- Molimist desis HAPPY GO AREA
- cultural/moslimist desis FIRE! FIRE! FIRE!

full stop.

lol ur cute

I know alot about desis. The cultural ones who dont claim to be religious are easy to figure out. Its the one who say they are religious but do crap anyways that you have to be careful of, because they try to manipulate you into becoming like them.

what is a Molimist?

Sabz · #73 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 04:06 PM

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lol ur cute

I know alot about desis. The cultural ones who dont claim to be religious are easy to figure out. Its the one who say they are religious but do crap anyways that you have to be careful of, because they try to manipulate you into becoming like them.

what is a Molimist?

muslim...ist

displaced · #74 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Whatyosayin

lol ur cute

I know alot about desis. The cultural ones who dont claim to be religious are easy to figure out. Its the one who say they are religious but do crap anyways that you have to be careful of, because they try to manipulate you into becoming like them.

what is a Molimist?

don't feel bad. what happened, happened. you can't change anything but what you do from now on.

Aminah2006 · #75 (**permalink**) 01-29-2008, 04:35 PM

Eeeeeek! He did what?????How dare he????Where was your wali/chaperone????

Repeat after me....
Aa woothu beAllah mina alshaytan alrajeem
( I seek Allah swt refudge against the cursed devil )
and runnnnnn! Farrrr Awaayyyy from that guy!

Seriously, I agree with everyone who said he has no respect for you
and recommended you to dump him.
Get Away, Stay Away, Do NOT go back to anywhere near that guy.
He does NOT have your best interests in mind.

Insha Allah (if Allah wishes), Hope you will find a decent husband....

FI-UMMAN-ALLAH (May Allah protect you)