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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
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Getting frisky before marriage..
But what if it just happens? What if its a spur of the momnet thing? I know its still haraam but what are everyones thoughts on this? 
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what spur of the moment? there are 5,000 times you can stop yourself. you don't just slip and fall on somebody and the haraam just happens. |
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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
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Getting frisky before marriage..
But what if it just happens? What if its a spur of the momnet thing? I know its still haraam but what are everyones thoughts on this?
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02-12-2008, 10:14 AM
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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
HiJaBi_ShAh: Getting frisky before marriage.. But what if it just happens? What if its a spur of the momnet thing? I know its still haraam but what are everyones thoughts on this?
Then keep it between you and God.
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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
ilikemyscarf: wow..does anyone remember shotgunmessiah?
Yes. 
He still comes on AIM though.
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ilikemyscarf: wow..does anyone remember shotgunmessiah?
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He still comes on AIM though.
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Give him and his wife my regards, please.
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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
Make sure there is a 3rd person (mahrem) with you at all times if you are meeting up with someone of the opposite gender. Otherwise the 3rd person will be shaytaan.
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sexual compatibility is more than just having the right parts.
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Make sure there is a 3rd person (mahrem) with you at all times if you are meeting up with someone of the opposite gender. Otherwise the 3rd person will be shaytaan.
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shaytaan's not a person
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sexual compatibility is more than just having the right parts.
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how can you be sure of that?
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common sense.
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Cuz parts are subject to change. esp after marriage for most women.
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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
If it were just a matter of having the right equipment, advice columns wouldn't be filled with people complaining that their partner wants it too much, too little, only in the morning, only on Tuesday afternoons, etc.
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Re: Getting frisky before marriage?
Sexual compatibility is just a reflection of the compatibility that exists in the relationship in general.
And that's all I want to say about that.
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Remember, there is no spoon.
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I misread that as "remember, there is no spooning."  
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