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Re: What is gained and what is lost in America?
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As-Salaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaah,
I know plenty of Pakistani Americans that married Mexican Muslims or white Muslims. In terms of marriage, Pakistanis seem to be the most willing to marry a revert whereas other ethnicities take a little longer to accept reverts.
Im glad that Pakistanis marry outside of their ethnicity. It shows tolerance and the willingness to diversify. alHumdu-Lillaah
But then again, that is only my observation. 
Oh and thats another reason why I love Pakistanis
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oh please, desis only marry non-desis because they believe a desi isnt good enough for them. this is especially true for the girls, who think desi guys are not good enough for them. they let thier fears and paranoia take over and then run off with kaffirs foolishly thinking that life will be easier with them.
One of my sister's ex-freind, a Hyderabadi, went down that road, her kaffir hubby was a mixed race, and converted in name only. Her marriage ended in divorce a year ago, and she is stuck with two kids, and.... i found her profiles all over the internet trying to find a new hubby at the age of 37, while lying about her age at the same time LOL. She is even up on naseeb too.
i just want to add, that i used to have the hots for her when i was a young teenage boy going through puberty, and she would flirt with me all the time, because that was her thing, and now im shocked at all old and wrinkly got now.
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Re: What is gained and what is lost in America?
As-Salaamu 'Alaykum,
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oh please, desis only marry non-desis because they believe a desi isnt good enough for them. this is especially true for the girls, who think desi guys are not good enough for them. they let thier fears and paranoia take over and then run off with kaffirs foolishly thinking that life will be easier with them.
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i was actually speaking about brothers marrying girls of other ethnicity.
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Re: What is gained and what is lost in America?
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As-Salaamu 'Alaykum,
i was actually speaking about brothers marrying girls of other ethnicity.
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its the same thing. look, Muslim men are allowed to marry christian women, however, they have to be practicing believing christians. If they are just christian in name only, it makes them kaffirs pure and simple.
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read the article and look at what the rich businessman said. "I will curse the day i came to america for the rest of my life because it stole my children away from me". all the wealth he made here, doesnt mean squate to him.
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i just want to add, that i used to have the hots for her when i was a young teenage boy going through puberty, and she would flirt with me all the time, because that was her thing, and now im shocked at all old and wrinkly got now.
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boy that must really make you laugh... 
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Re: What is gained and what is lost in America?
yeah it is
(no offense to old ppl)
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I'm just thinking how pleased GOTFIVE is over this poor woman's fate...and then he wonders about himself...aray bad-bakht when will you give up this wretched envy and hate ? 
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Mossad:  Aren't you gonna be a doctor? 37's not even middle-aged.
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I'm just thinking how pleased GOTFIVE is over this poor woman's fate...and then he wonders about himself...aray bad-bakht when will you give up this wretched envy and hate ? 
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Yeah, I know. I don't understand why he's so happy about it either.
How do you know her husband converted in name only GotFive and that religion was the reason their marriage failed? There could be any number of reasons and we don't know because we weren't in that marriage. If that was the reason, then how come their marriage lasted as long as it did?
In any case, that's not the worst thing ever. People get divorced and re-married all the time and they find happiness again. Big deal.
Not everybody finds the right person the first time around. These things are written already, no? It's all naseeb.

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Mossad:  Aren't you gonna be a doctor? 37's not even middle-aged.
Yeah, I know. I don't understand why he's so happy about it either.
How do you know her husband converted in name only GotFive and that religion was the reason their marriage failed? There could be any number of reasons and we don't know because we weren't in that marriage. If that was the reason, then how come their marriage lasted as long as it did?
In any case, that's not the worst thing ever. People get divorced and re-married all the time and they find happiness again. Big deal.
Not everybody finds the right person the first time around. These things are written already, no? It's all naseeb.

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My cousin married for the first time at 38...
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Mossad:  Aren't you gonna be a doctor? 37's not even middle-aged.
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37 is close to menopause for alot of women meaning they may have trouble having kids. I've seen women hit menopause at 39 and 40, its not uncommon. At advanced ages the likelihood of having kids with Down's Syndrome and other diseases increases alot too. 37 is still at the early stage of all these problems, but they're something that has to be considered
Doesnt mean somebody who is 37 shouldnt try to get married or anything like that. Whatever attributes somebody has, theres someone else looking for those attrbutes. There is some guy out there looking for an older woman who doesnt want children. I know a man who is closing in on 50 who just married a woman of the same age. Both are getting married for the first time
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Sure, but it's certainly not "old and wrinkly."

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Re: What is gained and what is lost in America?
not compared to a 98 year old woman
but yeah, in comparison to a 19 or 20 year old
age is all relative
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Sure, but it's certainly not "old and wrinkly."

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or bald and bitter...
i have a friend who's 35 and she has 18 year old asking her out.... 
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No, 19 and 20 year olds are young.
Old is the other end of the spectrum.
37 is closer to 20 than 98.

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