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I guess we're in total agreement there!
To be honest, a marriage contract is basically just that. At least where I come from. The names, the date, the amount of mahr received. The amount of the delayed dowry promised. The signature of the wali the two witnesses, and the mullah who married them off. I haven't really seen people put anything other than that.
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i dont plan on getting married,...
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Celibacy isn't allowed in Islam 
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i dont care
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Deep down inside you do. You'll realise it when you come of age
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no i dont want to get married ever, im not willing to make loads of sacrifices for someone else... im to selfish
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11-17-2007, 10:06 AM
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no im not, just cause im 19 i dont think im ready for marriage i dont think il be ready for marriage when im 99.
im glad my parents dont think im "of age" to get married, they want me to focus on my education.
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Physically maybe. Mentally not so much
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Back across the continent, if he's a FOB and otherwise, to his mum...
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no im not, just cause im 19 i dont think im ready for marriage i dont think il be ready for marriage when im 99.
im glad my parents dont think im "of age" to get married, they want me to focus on my education.
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Love is a funny thing. It strikes anyone and everyone. It's not a matter of if, rather it's a matter of when. Maybe youll come of age then, or maybe you wont but will still wanna get married then
p.s. denial isn't just a river in egypt donchaknow.
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no im not, just cause im 19 i dont think im ready for marriage i dont think il be ready for marriage when im 99.
im glad my parents dont think im "of age" to get married, they want me to focus on my education.
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I dont blame you for feeling that way.
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Love is a funny thing. It strikes anyone and everyone. It's not a matter of if, rather it's a matter of when. Maybe youll come of age then, or maybe you wont but will still wanna get married then
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Hahahahhhahahahahahahhaha! First time I ever heard that  Reps your way! :P |
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Love is a funny thing. It strikes anyone and everyone. It's not a matter of if, rather it's a matter of when. Maybe youll come of age then, or maybe you wont but will still wanna get married then
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yeah i dont belive in love, its a made up emotion, what people think they feel.
Besides a woman has to make alot more sacrfices than a guy when she gets married, and im not willing to make those sacrfices and im not a feminist but im not willing to "obey" or be "obidient" to anyone whos not my parents, and im not a submissive person.
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yeah i dont belive in love, its a made up emotion, what people think they feel.
Besides a woman has to make alot more sacrfices than a guy when she gets married, and im not willing to make those sacrfices and im not a feminist but im not willing to "obey" or be "obidient" to anyone whos not my parents, and im not a submissive person.
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