[wheelworks]

Im talkin in general. I know there's exceptions to ever rule

[nectar]

No, especially not in men.

[Rida]

.....

[lol_lol]

Not really

[TariqBinSleepin]

Assalamu Alaikum,

In my honest opinion. I think one needs to be mature to get married. Unless they are rushed into it by their parents. Or on the other hand, by infatuated love which doesn't last very long. When you get married islamically and both partners have good iman and deen, then I don't think there should be any reason for immaturity to exist.

To answer the question directly, i think Marriage often DOES solve immaturity. Ofcourse theres exception to every rule . I think once you are married and on your own, as a natural instinct we develop the need to take responsibility, but once again theres exception to every rule . Especially when you have a child.

If you get married to some one the same age as you and often we see this happen, and actually it is recommended in this day and age that as muslims we get married early so we don't get the desire to hold illicit and illegal relationships such as boy friend , girlfriend. And so if you get married to some one the same age as you or around the same +/- 2-3 years, you can grow together and become mature along side with your partner. But then again there are people who are way too mature for their age and vise verse. But once again there exception to every thing. . Just my 2cents.

[Rain]

My friend is much younger then her husband and she's smarter than him, which really gets on his nerves. I think he's immature like that...or, perhaps, more insecure. Anyhow, marriage adds responisbility and commitment, therefore, you're likely to mature naturally when you enter such a binding contract. Some people wait around for maturity to tap in first before they step into marriage, but maybe sometimes we need to take that leap of faith and realise that time, age and responisibility will form our gradual maturity.

so yeah, in most cases, marriage probably does solve immaturity. i think.

[rumi1000]

On some cases yes but in some no. I think it depends on the person

[zzze]

asslaamu alaykum

er, no, what the hell?!

marriage can show you exactly how immature you are lol.

[wheelworks]

Originally Posted by zzze

asslaamu alaykum

er, no, what the hell?!

marriage can show you exactly how immature you are lol.

Yea but once it shows how immature you are, does it cure it to make that person more mature and responsible?

[zzze]

assalmau alaykum

i don't think it's that simple. Instead of the immaturity being hidden it's right there, so it's something to work on, but would def. recommend people mature before they get married... it isn't fun sacrificing and compromising and being patient.

[MuslimZ]

No, but it does solve world hunger and cure cancer.

[wheelworks]

Originally Posted by MuslimZ

No, but it does solve world hunger and cure cancer.

Yea there's that to think about too

[MossadConspiracy]

I can only marry a girl who knows who this is:



i have a copy printed out (in color) which i take with me when i go meet girls. So far i havent found miss right

[wheelworks]

Originally Posted by MossadConspiracy

I can only marry a girl who knows who this is:

Even I don't know who that is. Have a long and happy bachelorhood dude

[MossadConspiracy]

you're a dude so i dont care. I dont know how many times i have to tell you that i'm straight. flattered but please back off

peace