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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
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Stop trying to get married on islamica.
You don't have to show how good a potential you are on islamica, use your facebook profile and network from there.
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 Anderson is right. Matrimonial sites are more helpful... |
Ok, i came to islamica to learn some more stuff about Islam, cuz im a revert, but obviouslly this isn't the site for it and instead am trying to teach immature people who *cough* happen to be older than me. You're right, mayb Islamica isn't for me 
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Awww congratulations  , I'm happy for you both. |
you are so lame. like really. get some new jokes.
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Ok, i came to islamica to learn some more stuff about Islam, cuz im a revert, but obviouslly this isn't the site for it and instead am trying to teach immature people who *cough* happen to be older than me. You're right, mayb Islamica isn't for me |
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Ok, i came to islamica to learn some more stuff about Islam, cuz im a revert, but obviouslly this isn't the site for it and instead am trying to teach immature people who *cough* happen to be older than me. You're right, mayb Islamica isn't for me |
don't go because of our random, daft comments. well, mine. people take islamica too seriously. seriously.  |
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don't go because of our random, daft comments. well, mine. people take islamica too seriously. seriously. |
Don't worry, im not leaving .
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11-08-2007, 02:24 AM
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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
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Anderson is right. Matrimonial sites are more helpful... |
no, they are not. they are a waste of your time and money. these sites are all scams. you keep feeding them $9.99 a month and get nothing out of it. people who post on these websites are usually extremely daam picky to begin with anyways. if they werent, they wouldnt have any trouble finding someone. so they stick up ad's on these sites, like naseeb for example, pay them money like fools and get nowhere with it.
anyways, its very easy to feel lonely, when you get much older and all your old freinds you used to hang out with, are now busy staying at home with thier wives, and even kids. then what do you do? then they start telling you to get married so you dont keep bugging them anymore. marriage can solve lonelyness, only if you are actually doing activities together, yes that means activities outside of the bedroom. like going out to dinner, to the movies, things like that. otherwise if your marriage consists only of slam, bam, thank you ma'am, ya, like most typical desi uncles, your not gonna get very far, and before you know it, your spending half your time sitting with other old desi uncles in cabbie dhaba's trying to get away from thier wifey as much as possible.
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Make sure the future spouse is a friend first then its liek killing to birds with one stone!
Or cutting two sheep heads with one knife, if you want it the halaal way, for you moslemics out there.
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oh please, this is why guys should never take advice from females about other females. ya thats right, follow this nonsense and guess what happens? you get stuck forever in the dreaded 'friend zone'. if a girl thinks of you as nothing more than a freind, thats all you will ever be, its like she sees you as a brother.
plenty of desi chics, with thier low self-esteem over thier looks, and attention craving habits, have thousands of guy freinds, i ask you girls one q and one q only, how many of you would actually consider marrying one of those guy freinds?
and im not talking about generally speaking either, think about all those legions of dorks you make to follow you around and drool over you out of thier own desperation. how many of them would you actually consider marrying?
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11-08-2007, 02:46 AM
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okay then  does that mean the main objective in your life is to be on a predatorial look out for someone to capture and then play rumi with forever?
You're awaiting a path of disappointment because you're putting all of your focuses on to it. It's not healthy. If you focussed on getting a life and being more active, maybe things would be different.
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okay then does that mean the main objective in your life is to be on a predatorial look out for someone to capture and then play rumi with forever?
You're awaiting a path of disappointment because you're putting all of your focuses on to it. It's not healthy. If you focussed on getting a life and being more active, maybe things would be different. |
ha, ya go tell that to the never-married, 40 year old work a holic. |
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being a workaholic is different. In most cases there's little feeling of fulfilment. Having some outdoor activities and hobbies might help.
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workaholics feel good when they achieve stuff at their job. thats where the 'aholic' part comes from
usually they get alot of money too, if theyre married they generally let their woman control all the dough. so everyone's happy
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neither of you are making any sense at this point. bluestar commented that 'being active' will help you find someone or cure your lonliness. yet how many dating sites are there, like match.com, where you will find 40-something year olds, both male and female, looking to get married?
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usually they get alot of money too, if theyre married they generally let their woman control all the dough. so everyone's happy
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how is that making everyone happy? i know thats your grand plan, to have a wifey who controls and dominates you, so she can remind you of dear old mama, but in the end you will end up being robbed in divorce court - for being too boring.
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Ok, i came to islamica to learn some more stuff about Islam, cuz im a revert, but obviouslly this isn't the site for it and instead am trying to teach immature people who *cough* happen to be older than me. You're right, mayb Islamica isn't for me |
so whats your conversion story? if you don't mind sharing that is... I love to hear em 
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