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marriage dosnt solve anything, actually marriage causes more problems... so yeah dont get married for that reason cause it wont help. enjoy single life.
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im not married, but ive found someone who kept me from being lonely.
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You have to be happy on your own before you can think of making somebody else happy.
I wouldn't wanna get married for a long, long time, but my parents are all "Ooh, it's our fard to get our kids married off" and "We have to start thinking about it soon."  Marriage scares me. 
 
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You have to be happy on your own before you can think of making somebody else happy.
I wouldn't wanna get married for a long, long time, but my parents are all "Ooh, it's our fard to get our kids married off" and "We have to start thinking about it soon." Marriage scares me.
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I have the worst insecurities about marriage. Seriously, I don't believe marriage solves loneliness, i think the mere apparent concept of it in my life drove me to a state of isolation. I have issues.  |
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Getting married is all about making babies and practising making babies, people like to obfuscate things because they're dumb.
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um...if you are lonely that means you have problems...i mean there is the rest of the world to socialize with...so if you are lonely, please dont get married...youll only bore the other person
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Getting married is all about making babies and practising making babies, people like to obfuscate things because they're dumb.
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um...if you are lonely that means you have problems...i mean there is the rest of the world to socialize with...so if you are lonely, please dont get married...youll only bore the other person
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Mayb they have really good humor sense and personality but don't know how to socialize and are Lonely because of that? Mayb the person needs to get married to end their lonelyness. Aren't both partners suppose to contribute to a married relationship? Shouldn't the BORED person try to cheer up the lonely person? I dunno, i would. In a married relationship, one should not only look to give but also to recieve.
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Mayb they have really good humor sense and personality but don't know how to socialize and are Lonely because of that? Mayb the person needs to get married to end their lonelyness. Aren't both partners suppose to contribute to a married relationship? Shouldn't the BORED person try to cheer up the lonely person? I dunno, i would. In a married relationship, one should not only look to give but also to recieve.
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yeah...ok...but if a person wasnt able to socialize with people for all their lives (up until they got married) how is their spouse supposed to cheer them up?
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Say what?? so if you're practicing making babies with your wife the who are you practicing FOR? Stop being dumb and obscuring the meaning of marriage.
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Say what?? so if you're practicing making babies with your wife the who are you practicing FOR? Stop being dumb and obscuring the meaning of marriage.
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Stop trying to get married on islamica.
You don't have to show how good a potential you are on islamica, use your facebook profile and network from there.
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Stop trying to get married on islamica.
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lmao...i guess hes doing a good job if you noticed 
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Say what?? so if you're practicing making babies with your wife the who are you practicing FOR? Stop being dumb and obscuring the meaning of marriage.
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 Anderson is right. Matrimonial sites are more helpful... |
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I have a facebook profile. And im not trying to get married on islamica. How bou't you stop hating on me when u don't even know me?
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Awww congratulations  , I'm happy for you both.
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I have a facebook profile. And im not trying to get married on islamica. How bou't you stop hating on me when u don't even know me?
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