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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
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I thought that was a no-no in islam.
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I thought perverted minds would corrupt the meaning of that sentence so I asked her to clarify. If you scroll up on page 1 you'll see another guys answer as to what she meant 
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10-23-2007, 02:18 PM
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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
Of course not....the only thing that solves lonliness is genuine company or you learning to enjoy the company of yourself 
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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
Aryan, I almost put "Aryan, shut up" at the end of my previous post. How predictable you are.
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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
Eh, it wouldn't be healthy for the marriage if your main purpose would be to not feel lonely. You'd be clingy and yearning for love and then angry if you don't get attention/company how you want it. I'd focus on doing other things, getting involved with activities which enable you to meet other people, even if it's just going to the cinema with people from work, or martial art classes etc.
Once you build up your own personal strengths, you will have a better relationship with another person because you don't expect anything from them and whatever you get will always be appreciated more 
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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
I doubt it.
I don't think your husband or wife would be happy with you spending 24/7 with them...
Go out and make some friends.
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10-23-2007, 05:54 PM
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Re: Does Marriage solve loneliness?
get a pet
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Yea! A talking parrot
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Aryan, I almost put "Aryan, shut up" at the end of my previous post. How predictable you are.
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Lol.
He sounds like an old married man.
You could put him on ignore. Works for some of us.
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Brilliant reply.
It's like when an 18 year old says "I've longed to get married".
What the? Eight years ago, you were still in primary school!
Get a puppy Akram. You just have way too much time to wallow in self-pity. You need a distraction from your own intertia. A puppy will solve that, only if because it will destroy everything around your home, you'll be too busy to notice your loneliness.
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Aryan, I almost put "Aryan, shut up" at the end of my previous post. How predictable you are.
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Brilliant reply.
It's like when an 18 year old says "I've longed to get married".
What the? Eight years ago, you were still in primary school!
Get a puppy Akram. You just have way too much time to wallow in self-pity. You need a distraction from your own intertia. A puppy will solve that, only if because it will destroy everything around your home, you'll be too busy to notice your loneliness.
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You're not allowed to have a puppy. GEt a kitten.
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You're not allowed to have a puppy. GEt a kitten.
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Yes you CAN if it's going to protect your property!
Get 2 kittens from the RSPCA and save 2 more lives.
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Yes you CAN if it's going to protect your property!
Get 2 kittens from the RSPCA and save 2 more lives.
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Make sure the future spouse is a friend first then its liek killing to birds with one stone!
Or cutting two sheep heads with one knife, if you want it the halaal way, for you moslemics out there.
Walaikum as salaam
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Just talk to yourself in front of the mirror. Just talk to yourself in front of the mirror. I turned out perfectly ok. I turned out perfectly ok.
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