[LEGALEAGLE]

Originally Posted by shadha

Why don't you just read a couple books on it or search the web?


shadha-

Search the Web ?!....Oh dear...Noooooo.....

Well Wolfn...I'm not married yet so strictly speaking you're competition but ...I would strongly suggest finding out a bit about the person first...chatting to them...then asking a mutual friend if they like you then talking to that person...

Just don't go too fast..

[Adara]

I suggest you don't go online to find an s/o.

And when you do meet someone you like, introduce her to your sister/mother or any female you trust who can get to know her as a friend.

[bihari]

Originally Posted by Wolfn

Salaams. How does a Muslim marriage work? To my understanding, we're not allowed to date, so how do I meet a girl, etc? Is a Muslim marriage similar to a Christian one or anything?

You can't date in the sense of 'going out' alone, but you can go out in groups of people ie 'group dates' (since the possibility of being alone and potentially engaging in haram acts is far, far less) , but only for the purpose of marriage, not 'just for fun'