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I know many sisters who are in school. And are married. Their husbands come over, usually on the weekends. Leave after the weekend. While this is not religiously prohibited, do you think this builds up a healthy relationship? Isnt this like akin to a drop-in service?
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I guess its a case of circumstances, i mean if you're busy during the week doing long school days and working whilst living away..it makes sense to live this way.

Its halaal and hopefully would kill the need for inappropriate relationships.
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I know many sisters who are in school. And are married. Their husbands come over, usually on the weekends. Leave after the weekend. While this is not religiously prohibited, do you think this builds up a healthy relationship? Isnt this like akin to a drop-in service?
no. it's a marriage. probably a damn good one, because you're not up in each other's space all the time. you have time to miss each other. and when you fight, it doesn't last long, 'cause you know you don't have that much time together.

your goal is to eventually live together.

there are cons too, but hey, you do what you gotta do. if that's the person you want to be with and that's what it takes, then you do it.
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Sounds good to me
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i dont think this is appropriate.
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i dont think this is appropriate.
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i believe its unislamic to compare an islamically valid marriage to a "drop-in service."
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i believe its unislamic to compare an islamically valid marriage to a "drop-in service."
He's probably jealous and bitter and alone.
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i belive it is akin to slandering the name of a chaste woman.
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wow, congrats, you read a website! We should all prostrate before your greatness
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wrong. we only prostrate to Allah swt. i find this offensive.
Proceed to tell me how much you know about Islam and how little I know, followed by stupid comments and circular arguments.
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Proceed to tell me how much you know about Islam and how little I know, followed by stupid comments and circular arguments.
i went to sunday school. i'm qualified to say.. things.
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