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Originally Posted by iSHi
some people are "fat" due to complicated health conditions. It's sickening that even muslims are being so judgemental on other people just because they're overweight/underweight. I'm sure Allah(swt) will not judge a person on their weight. So why should we?!
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well there are plenty of black men who like big women, but then again there are plenty of men of all races who seem to have that fetish for 'b.b.w.' LOL.
even i dont mind a lil meat on a girl, let's make a distinction here now, there is a fine line between being fat as a cow and being what they call being 'thick' in slang. now i dont mind a thick girl, its good if a girl has curves and meat on her. even sir mix alot made a whole song about that
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_SI8dJ4KUA mmmmmmm
but what happens if she has kids? if she even has anymore room in there to carry a kid to begin with hahaha. and that too for nine loooooooooong months!
she will get huge overnight, and then what are you stuck with? after a couple of kids, before you know it you got a 300 lbs cow hogging up half the bed like in the movie 'norbit' haha.
you may think im being mean, but its not healthy to be overweight, it will lead to diabetes, alot of health problems later on in life, and you will die an early age. obesesity right now is the # 1 health issue for the united states government. its that bad, its worst than smoking and DUI.
and desi girls, after marriage just let it all go and turn into some really huge aunty because they stop caring what they look like after marriage. im 32 right now, im about 12 lbs over the weight i should be at for a man of my age and height. i even checked with a doctor on this and he pulled out a table book showing me what im supposed to weigh. I more than anyone know its not easy to lose weight, and with my age creeping up on me, and my metabolism rotting away at lightening speed, i have done all that i can to at least control my weight from gaining any further if i cant lose it. i exercise, i go for walks everyday. i dont ride elevators if i dont have to, i take the stairs up and down. i weightlift EVERY SINGLE DAY. and that most of all helps me alot. skip meals if you have to. goto sleep hungry, because when you wake up, i promise you, you wont feel hungry at all and you will lose weight. not only that, i have noticed that desi food is really fattening, compared to american food. dont eat out soo much, people like to eat out alot and that food is just not healthy. try to eat more home cooked meals, mix it up with vegitables. eat more fruits, and most of all drink more water. water will fill you up and help you lose weight at the same time. and most of all control your hunger. if anything fasting in ramadan should teach you how to control your hunger which is what i do to control my weight. i have managed to lose at least 25lbs on my own, without resorting to something like jenny craig or joining a gym. i mean if i do all these things, i can least demand a wife who will do the same things too.
Re: Would you marry a fat hijabi or a thin non hijabi?
". No, you (and I and we) will certainly be judged and reprimanded or punished on the day of the great gathering in Allah's presence.
