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Old 02-04-2008, 12:45 AM
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Default Re: Would you marry a fat hijabi or a thin non hijabi?

Lol oh oki.

I think it's also important to be aware that sizes of today are not the same as they were back in Monroe time. This article talks about it Urban Legends Reference Pages: Marilyn Monroe's Dress Size

Though, I do not believe for a moment that chick was rockin a 22inch waist. Not for a moment.


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Vari: How do girls sizes work? In the guy world we have large, medium and small. (except if we're buying suits)

In America is from a 00 and up. Now, clothing sizes vary per brand though, so for one brand you may be a size 3/4 and in another you may be a size 7/8. Mind games yo, mind games. There are some female clothing that is small, medium large but usually they still have numbers along with it.


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Vari: How do girls sizes work? In the guy world we have large, medium and small. (except if we're buying suits)

In America is from a 00 and up. Now, clothing sizes vary per brand though, so for one brand you may be a size 3/4 and in another you may be a size 7/8. Mind games yo, mind games. There are some female clothing that is small, medium large but usually they still have numbers along with it.


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So what number is it at when you generally start getting into the plus sizes? (I'm looking for a frame of reference)
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In America is from a 00 and up. Now, clothing sizes vary per brand though, so for one brand you may be a size 3/4 and in another you may be a size 7/8. Mind games yo, mind games. There are some female clothing that is small, medium large but usually they still have numbers along with it.


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Could be different in Canada, but I find a lot of clothing here is labelled Small, Medium, Large... without an actual number size.


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Vari: So what number is it at when you generally start getting into the plus sizes? (I'm looking for a frame of reference)

I honestly don't know.


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asslaamu alaykum

i'd say obese would be a british size 16, but it all depends on ur height - a girl could be 5 ft and petite and obese are size 12 i'm sure.

So (according to this table I found) american size 12 would be a british size 16. I'd say that's generally a plus size, based on the average size of around 5'4. I'd personally consider myself a plus size if i became a size 12/14 though. (It's ok, i've already established I'm vain)
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i'd say obese would be a british size 16, but it all depends on ur height - a girl could be 5 ft and petite and obese are size 12 i'm sure.

So (according to this table I found) american size 12 would be a british size 16. I'd say that's generally a plus size, based on the average size of around 5'4. I'd personally consider myself a plus size if i became a size 12/14 though. (It's ok, i've already established I'm vain)
nahaha... 5'4'', the ubiquitous female height.

I only ask because these when these numbers come up in conversation sometimes they elicit strong responses from girls. But I don't know what they mean... like are you crying because you're happy? ...or sad???
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nahaha... 5'4'', the ubiquitous female height.

I only ask because these when these numbers come up in conversation sometimes they elicit strong responses from girls. But I don't know what they mean... like are you crying because you're happy? ...or sad???
I'm noto sure how many girls would cry because they're happy they're skinny, unless they've just literally had the fat sucked outa them, but other people might know better.
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I'm noto sure how many girls would cry because they're happy they're skinny, unless they've just literally had the fat sucked outa them, but other people might know better.
Yeh, I've seen it. On 'last 10 pounds bootcamp'. And maybe even in real life...
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z: I'd personally consider myself a plus size if i became a size 12/14 though. (It's ok, i've already established I'm vain)

Lol. I guess I'm more vain than you because I'd personally claim obesity if I am a size 11/12- but then again I'm also two whole inches shorter than you.

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You can buy "regular" clothes up to size 18 in most stores. Plus size isn't just a number, it's also the way they cut the clothing. So, you will find that a "plus sized" 18 fits very differently than a "normal" size 18. I've seen plus sized stores that start at size 12 If having a normal BMI, and being a size 12 in a plus sized shop with the size 32 ladies doesn't give you body image problems, I don't know what will.
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z: I'd personally consider myself a plus size if i became a size 12/14 though. (It's ok, i've already established I'm vain)

Lol. I guess I'm more vain than you because I'd personally claim obesity if I am a size 11/12- but then again I'm also two whole inches shorter than you.


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