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Old 09-23-2007, 05:03 PM
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Yay or nay? any experience with them?
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HELLLL nay.
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Waste of time. Sometimes you have to do it though.
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asslamau alaykum

A few weeks of a long distance relationship is a killer...can't imagine anything more than that. so, nay!
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A few weeks of a long distance relationship is a killer...can't imagine anything more than that. so, nay!
A few weeks is nothing. Try 5 months.
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But they're sooo romaaantic...
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asslamau alaykum


wow, 5 months? Patience is beautiful indeed. And very, very, very much like torture. May Allah swt reward you ameen.
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everyones chosen nay, so ill pick yay
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Depends on the person...if they're worth it, and at some point you will be together...then why not. But I guess it depends on the maturity level of those involved and how close they are.

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asslaamu alaykum

Not when it need not be fonder ! Ah, patience is a virtue...a virtue...
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