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Old 09-23-2007, 02:27 PM
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Okay. Ann Coulter will someday have a little miss ***** of her own to tell everyone how we should kill all the Muslim leaders and convert the Muslims to Christianity. Just to continue the species. What a heartwarming thought!
Just think, if her parents were Desi they would love her for having kids, no matter how aweful those kids were, and if she didn't have kids, she would be a horrible failure and her husband would be urged to marry another.
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Okay. Ann Coulter will someday have a little miss ***** of her own to tell everyone how we should kill all the Muslim leaders and convert the Muslims to Christianity. Just to continue the species. What a heartwarming thought!
Why are you taking Ann Coulter into a discussion about procreation so suddenly and unexpectedly? Did she reject you?
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Ann Coulter is half man. I don't think it's possible for her/it to have kids.
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Ann Coulter is half man. I don't think it's possible for her/it to have kids.
Did you hear about the male baboon that gave birth?
It's rumored that Ann Coulter paid for that research, it gave her hope you see.
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The world is too complicated for having kids. I like kids, but raising them?
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better to not have kids than have kids you don't want.

(children can tell. you'll be starting up a cycle of trying to please you to gain your love & attention and never being able to. I've seen too much of this and it's incredibly sad)
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better to not have kids than have kids you don't want.

(children can tell. you'll be starting up a cycle of trying to please you to gain your love & attention and never being able to. I've seen too much of this and it's incredibly sad)
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Anyway having kids is awesome, definitely makes life better when you're degenerating with age. I want a girl and boy then another girl and then a boy and a half brother for them who's half black or white or both.

I don't even have nephews and nieces cos im the oldest and my cousins are spoilt.
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Anyway having kids is awesome, definitely makes life better when you're degenerating with age. I want a girl and boy then another girl and then a boy and a half brother for them who's half black or white or both.

I don't even have nephews and nieces cos im the oldest and my cousins are spoilt.
don't get me wrong, I love kids..we want two in five years or so.

but I've seen what happens when one person in the relationship doesn't want kids but the other does. it's very destructive.
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I want kids but i want them to be born at age 4 so i can enjoy the cool years of their childhood without having to deal with the annoying earlier ones
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Ann Coulter is half man. I don't think it's possible for her/it to have kids.
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I want kids but i want them to be born at age 4 so i can enjoy the cool years of their childhood without having to deal with the annoying earlier ones
lol. age 4 is right when the annoyingness has hit full speed and is ready to sail through to age 18.

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I'd feel like a failure at life if I never had kids... I suppose adopting might help, but I don't think it'd be the same.
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lol. age 4 is right when the annoyingness has hit full speed and is ready to sail through to age 18.

I know! That's what I was thinking too.
My brother is 4 now and I keep wishing he was 2 again, when he was so much cuter.


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kids. lots of kids.

all homeschooled whilst living on a farm, inshallah
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kids. lots of kids.

all homeschooled whilst living on a farm, inshallah
i feel sorry for your kids.
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