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No way, this place is terrible 4 30.77%
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Old 03-05-2008, 06:18 PM
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new york has lots of educational opportunities. For example, i went to one of the best high schools in the USA, and it was a public school that cost me nothing. That helped me alot. For people in business or finance, New York is where most of the top tier jobs are in this country (especially finance). For medical people, it is also home to alot of medical schools and their residency programs, including 4 premiere institutions which has got to be more than any other city.

i'm not too concerned about the arts and cultural stuff, but new york has that and alot of people do take advantage of it. I do like having convenient access to so many activities whenever i feel like doing them and so many destinations to go to at any time of day or night

population is more diverse than elsewhere, Queens county is the most diverse county in America. This is important for immigrants who want to stay connected to their people. And for black people, the center of black culture for the last 100 years is in New York. A muslim can feel at home in new york much more than in a suburban environment. I've seen it myself when i've gone to the south.

There are good islamic schools in new york too, but i think the best one is a shia one (its supposedly the best in America, or one of the best)

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you bring up good points, but you also threw in alot of your opinions but on a whole I think their are alot of areas of the countries that hold that same benefits that you mentioned without the problems associated with nyc.
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Well apparently Vancouver's the best place to live... I like it because it's really easy to find my favourite cheese there.

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(actually in the new version Calgary is tied with Toronto )
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NYC is a crappy place to raise a family.
Are you speaking from experience?
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new york has lots of educational opportunities. For example, i went to one of the best high schools in the USA
Did you go to Stuyvesant?

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Are you speaking from experience?
I've lived there, if that's what you're asking. I've never tried to raise a family there, but then I haven't tried to raise a family anywhere else either
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I've lived there, if that's what you're asking. I've never tried to raise a family there, but then I haven't tried to raise a family anywhere else either
Oh okay. Well, we do have family in NY and NJ, and they work in NYC, their kids go to school there, and last I visited them, ... as a family they were doing just fine.
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Did you go to Stuyvesant?
yeah, so did my sister and one of my brothers. my other brother went to bronx science. those schools open up alot of opportunities for people who get in.

The reason I got into stuyvesant is because I went to a gifted program in elementary school and another one in junior high school. My siblings mostly went through the same elementary school program. It was in our neighborhood public school, so it was free.

also, New York has unique advantages at the college level. For example, there are two biomed programs in the CUNY system which guarantee admission into medical school. Baruch is a CUNY school but it is well regarded in the New York business community and finance world and because of all the internships and opportunities that are available to the students there, they can end up with jobs similar to the ones that Wharton grads are getting. I only mention CUNY schools because the tuition is so cheap. There are also alot of fellowships and scholarships that are available only to students in New York. My brother was a fellow in such a program that gave him a bunch of money and allowed him to work at the UN, at a major criminal defense firm, and at a political think tank in Washington DC.
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Houston, DC, Northern Cali--TO would be wonderful as well... Dallas is uh... a no but it's a lot better then most places. NC like someone said has a great community there. Dearborn--but it seems kinda... grey and dead. Chicago suburbia is good too.
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i'm sorry.. but i'm effin through with this place. i've been raised in nyc all my life, and honestly the quality of living is NOT worth the high costs of living. i would not want to raise my son here. i wish i could leave right now, but it's not possible at this time.

but, they say once you leave NYC (and you're a native new yorker), you're always comparing NYC to the place you live.
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the best way to build a stable family and home is with a person who cares
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but, they say once you leave NYC (and you're a native new yorker), you're always comparing NYC to the place you live.
I think that's true of anyone from any place. I'm always comparing things to the Pacific Northwest. That's the place I know best, so naturally that's what everything will be compared to. My mom compares everything with L.A., since that's where she grew up.
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Oh okay. Well, we do have family in NY and NJ, and they work in NYC, their kids go to school there, and last I visited them, ... as a family they were doing just fine.
Living in Jersey & working in NYC is a different story.

As far as I'm concerned, NYC sucks & everyone from the area talks like a doofus and mistakenly thinks they're cool for living there.
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Living in Jersey & working in NYC is a different story.

As far as I'm concerned, NYC sucks & everyone from the area talks like a doofus and mistakenly thinks they're cool for living there.


hahahahaha I competely agree....I dont get why NYC people cant fathom that their are places in america that are just as great or even greater
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i grew up in NJ..it's not too bad.
northern VA is nice and we have a big Muslim community but the area is mad expensive. (where i live)
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traffic in northern virginia is terrible

texas is ugly.

the newish areas in southern states are h