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View Poll Results: What would you do?
Break off friendship but not all contact 1 3.85%
Break off all contact 1 3.85%
Remain friends 10 38.46%
Remain friends but with more limitations and being more cautious 9 34.62%
Its haraam, etc to have that kind of friendship in the first place. 2 7.69%
Its haraam, etc to have contact in the first place (friendship or not) 3 11.54%
Other (explain) 0 0%
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Old 01-08-2008, 08:56 AM
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Default Re: Would you cut off all opposite gender friendships after marriage?

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Well I disagree wholeheartedly. I give people more credit than this. I don't think any things impossible my friend I do how ever think certain things are very unlikley.

Each of us are different and each fo us see things in very different lights. I'm not trying to be a douche but you don't know me nor do you know my friends, nor the situation so it might be very different from what happend with you.

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I wasn't talking about you specifically bro so don't be offended. That's why I said your situation might be different.

Talking about the dangers is one thing - and in the vast majority of cases those dangers are present - because it helps us to understand the wisdom behind the ruling but even in cases where there is no danger you've still got the traffic light scenario I gave.
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NO I have 3 friends period.
But I thought we were 'fraands'....

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to paraphrase chris rock, men dont have platonic female friends, they have friends they havent ****** yet lol. I share his sentiment. anywhooo I hope my significant other doesnt have any male friends.
Dude that means in effect that you would sleep with any woman who came your way..which really doesn't say much about your standards....
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