Would you cut off all opposite gender friendships after marriage?

MossadConspiracy · #76 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:15 PM

finally there was the one where there was a retarded girl (with a REALLY annoying voice), and her doctor was a very obese guy who was in love with her even though thats unethical, but had to compete with her cousin and other people that wanted to steal some huge fortune that she inherited

displaced · #77 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:34 PM

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finally there was the one where there was a retarded girl (with a REALLY annoying voice), and her doctor was a very obese guy who was in love with her even though thats unethical, but had to compete with her cousin and other people that wanted to steal some huge fortune that she inherited

I know the one you're talking about but can't remember the name.

infamousbrown · #78 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:46 PM

i'd definitely introduce my wife to any and all of my female friends -- and i wouldn't socialize with them unless she were present.

Jamroll · #79 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:52 PM

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theyre always on the prowl for #2 just like us

LOL!!

MossadConspiracy · #80 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:54 PM

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I know the one you're talking about but can't remember the name.

the retarded girl on that show is now a hijabi and she wears the stupidest looking scarves i've ever seen in my life

displaced · #81 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:55 PM

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the retarded girl on that show is now a hijabi and she wears the stupidest looking scarves i've ever seen in my life

hala shee7a?

or hanan turk?

MossadConspiracy · #82 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:56 PM

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hala shee7a?

or hanan turk?

lol the retarded one.... the one with the annoying voice..

edit: hanan turk

displaced · #83 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 07:59 PM

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lol the retarded one.... the one with the annoying voice..

edit: hanan turk

have never seen that show..

but there's always el 3ammah noor. nothing more amusing than watching whats-her-name try to speak english.

MossadConspiracy · #84 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 08:02 PM

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have never seen that show..

but there's always el 3ammah noor. nothing more amusing than watching whats-her-name try to speak english.

i wouldnt know, those three shows are pretty much the only arabic mosalsalat that i know anything about.

when i import a fobby girl we wont have much to talk about

Ilikemyscarf · #85 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 08:03 PM

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i'd definitely introduce my wife to any and all of my female friends -- and i wouldn't socialize with them unless she were present.

That's worse dude. It's nice and all that you respect her by only socializing with them when she's there but..she might get more jealous when she sees you together with your girlfriends. Socializing with non-mahrem is wrong anyway, married or unmarried.

displaced · #86 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 08:06 PM

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i wouldnt know, those three shows are pretty much the only arabic mosalsalat that i know anything about.

when i import a fobby girl we wont have much to talk about

that's okay...you can get ART and then you can just watch tv & not talk.

MossadConspiracy · #87 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 08:14 PM

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that's okay...you can get ART and then you can just watch tv & not talk.

i'm not gonna spoil her with satellite channels. I'll just get channel 1 and channel 2 and channel 5 straight from egypt somehow, so she can watch ahly soccer games and american b movies from the 80s that start halfway through, and coptic church services, etc

displaced · #88 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 08:18 PM

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i'm not gonna spoil her with satellite channels. I'll just get channel 1 and channel 2 and channel 5 straight from egypt somehow, so she can watch ahly soccer games and american b movies from the 80s that start halfway through, and coptic church services, etc

poor fobette.

Laimuun · #89 (**permalink**) 01-07-2008, 08:39 PM

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That's worse dude. It's nice and all that you respect her by only socializing with them when she's there but..she might get more jealous when she sees you together with your girlfriends. Socializing with non-mahrem is wrong anyway, married or unmarried.

not really? or at least.. not for everyone.

it's not "him socializing with his friends" it's "THEM socializing with their (now her new) friends".

my husband hardly has any girl friends (hell, he hardly has any guy friends, lol), but the one or two he did, I adopted as my friends.

which helped, since moving out of my home state got lonely and I'm not good at making my own friends, heh. I'm actually quite close with one of his old college friends, she's awesome, alhamdulillah.

and I don't really have any guy friends, but the one or two that I do, my husband is also friends with now. and I'd definitely never meet up with them without my husband there.

I don't get jealous, and neither does he, because his friends became my friends and my friends became his friends.

but it's all about having similar views with your spouse about friends of the opposite sex.

what works for some, won't work for others.