[sak01]

Originally Posted by Revert

Developing a crush on my one Friend who is a girl would be like developing a crush on my blood sister. Now I feel nautious...

Englad has different definitions of "friends"

Friends are like family

I had 5 female friends like that, that developed a crush on me. 2 of them became heartbroken one of whom really shocked me but in hindsight I could see the seeds of it being sown.

That's all in the past but now, as a rule, I put up many invisible barriers to keep any relationship with a non-mehram woman to that which is necessary only.

I would recommend everyone to listen to the story of Imam Basira. Your situation might be different but it illustrates how shaytan leads a person to a sin one would think impossible of oneself.

In another sense, running a red light is punishable and the wisdom is that it's dangerous. But if you run it at 4am when there is no danger the law will still lay the smackdown on you.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by sak01

I had 5 female friends like that, that developed a crush on me. 2 of them became heartbroken one of whom really shocked me but in hindsight I could see the seeds of it being sown.

That's all in the past but now, as a rule, I put up many invisible barriers to keep any relationship with a non-mehram woman to that which is necessary only.

I would recommend everyone to listen to the story of Imam Basira. Your situation might be different but it illustrates how shaytan leads a person to a sin one would think impossible of oneself.

In another sense, running a red light is punishable and the wisdom is that it's dangerous. But if you run it at 4am when there is no danger the law will still lay the smackdown on you.

yeah..someone ends up thinking since the other person's so great as a friend, they'll be great as more.

I like married mormon men. they're so decent and respectable.

[Revert]

Originally Posted by sak01

I had 5 female friends like that, that developed a crush on me. 2 of them became heartbroken one of whom really shocked me but in hindsight I could see the seeds of it being sown.

That's all in the past but now, as a rule, I put up many invisible barriers to keep any relationship with a non-mehram woman to that which is necessary only.

I would recommend everyone to listen to the story of Imam Basira. Your situation might be different but it illustrates how shaytan leads a person to a sin one would think impossible of oneself.

In another sense, running a red light is punishable and the wisdom is that it's dangerous. But if you run it at 4am when there is no danger the law will still lay the smackdown on you.

Well I disagree wholeheartedly. I give people more credit than this. I don't think any things impossible my friend I do how ever think certain things are very unlikley.

Each of us are different and each fo us see things in very different lights. I'm not trying to be a douche but you don't know me nor do you know my friends, nor the situation so it might be very different from what happend with you.

Allah knows best.

[MossadConspiracy]

Originally Posted by displaced

I like married mormon men. they're so decent and respectable.

theyre always on the prowl for #2 just like us

[displaced]

Originally Posted by MossadConspiracy

theyre always on the prowl for #2 just like us

not true..

we ba3dein you say "us" ka2en meratak mesh hatideek foo2 dimaghak if you so much as thought about it.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by Revert

Well I disagree wholeheartedly. I give people more credit than this. I don't think any things impossible my friend I do how ever think certain things are very unlikley.

Each of us are different and each fo us see things in very different lights. I'm not trying to be a douche but you don't know me nor do you know my friends, nor the situation so it might be very different from what happend with you.

Allah knows best.

it's possible, of course. but you should realize that this isn't the case among the majority of people with friends of the opposite sex.

[Revert]

Originally Posted by displaced

it's possible, of course. but you should realize that this isn't the case among the majority of people with friends of the opposite sex.

Really? Wow. Most of my male friends have female friends, they all seem to get along great without developing crushes or hopping into bed with each other. Why do people think that as soon as you have a friend of the opposite sex then it will lead to the bedroom?

[ChotooMotoo]

what? break of all my friendships? Without male friends, how will I know whose who in pro-football?

[Jamroll]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

what? break of all my friendships? Without male friends, how will I know whose who in pro-football?

Watch TV? Or read the paper?

[PhDGirl]

Originally Posted by Revert

Really? Wow. Most of my male friends have female friends, they all seem to get along great without developing crushes or hopping into bed with each other. Why do people think that as soon as you have a friend of the opposite sex then it will lead to the bedroom?

Yeah, I don't think being friends is that big of a deal - people just make it into one and/or can't handle it. Of course you can't be stupid about it, but there's no reason to cut off contact or anything.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by Jamroll

Watch TV? Or read the paper?

no dude. those things are off limits to girly chicks. we rely on male friends for our sports news, and pretend to be disgusted. the only sports girls are allowed to read up on are figure skating, gymnastics, and possibly tennis. duh.

[MossadConspiracy]

Originally Posted by displaced

not true..

we ba3dein you say "us" ka2en meratak mesh hatideek foo2 dimaghak if you so much as thought about it.

not if i'm benevolent and well meaning in my lechery like noor el sherif in that show where he was married to that chubby older lady that always acts with him and two or three hot young girls. i think it was called saba3 banat

[displaced]

Originally Posted by MossadConspiracy

not if i'm benevolent and well meaning in my lechery like noor el sherif in that show where he was married to that chubby older lady that always acts with him and two or three hot young girls. i think it was called saba3 banat

that was el hagg metwally..

[MossadConspiracy]

yeah thats the one

awesome show from what i heard

there was another one where he was married to that same girl and his son was going after some foreign girl. my whole family was obsessed with that show, despite the lack of polygamy or beautiful girls