Female Personal Hygiene

HijabiPrincezz · #**11881** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by afrakabob

you guys, i'm worried about my dad. he might have a serious health problem.

please keep him in your du'aas, insha Allah

inshallah itll be nothing serious, inshallah. hes in my duas, hun!

Timbit · #**11882** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by afrakabob

you guys, i'm worried about my dad. he might have a serious health problem.

please keep him in your du'aas, insha Allah

Will do. InshaAllah khair.

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Originally Posted by sumiyia

question... would you let a friend borrow your wedding/valima outfit for her own wedding?

Yes.

What've you got to lose?

Scarfy: Nope, black nailpolish is hot. I wear it all the time. Black or pink.

Asvi · #**11883** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by thejellymill

Dammit!!

My husband is so sneaky. I don't know what the little twit did to snoop around when I wasn't looking but he found out somehow what I was planning, (surprise vacation for our 1-year anniversary) despite me destroying the evidence. Now the trip's canceled cuz he's a dork...yea it's a long story

The moral of this story is don't ever underestimate the sneakiness of husbands and men in general.

Also thank you to all the ladies who pmed me or replied to me in fph (sugarberry, sumiyia, asvi, salika, zzze and everyone else

) and gave me tips or helped me search for stuff. I really appreciate it and just to know your advice didnt go to waste, I WILL be using those tips one day very soon inshallah (

)

Naj: flights to Dallas are supercheap right now

awww...that sucks..good luck next time

husbands are sneaky people.

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Originally Posted by Ilikemyscarf

Does black nail polish make one look emo?

nope..its hot!

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Originally Posted by sumiyia

question... would you let a friend borrow your wedding/valima outfit for her own wedding?

if she needs it to copy a style or something then yes..but to actually wear it..no.

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its soooooooooooo hotttt!!! o. m. g.
afra and zakk

will keep them both in my duas.

i have this friend, we got along really well over the phone. even when i went to her house everything was cool..then her attitude towards me changed..there were a few incidents where she yelled at me and one of them was in front of my hubby..where he noticed her tone of voice. Because of her attitude, i started distancing myself from her and at one point i didnt talk to her either. She never apologized to me because she thinks she didnt do anything.

I confronted her and tried to clear everything up before i left. But now since i've gotten back..we haven't spoken to eachother. should i call her or leave it? if i dont call her now then i dont think i'll call her ever. Maybe i should be the bigger person and call her. I don't even know if she'll pick up my phone call.. my heart is saying dont call her and my head is saying just call her. so confused.

fatima · #**11884** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 09:46 AM

duaas for zakk and afra's family

asvi....give her once more chance and call her...but dont have any expectations in doing so. and id be hesitant to get close to her again. forgive but dont forget

Asvi · #**11885** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by fatima

duaas for zakk and afra's family

asvi....give her once more chance and call her...but dont have any expectations in doing so. and id be hesitant to get close to her again. forgive but dont forget

thanks fatima

i called and left a voicemail..lets see if she calls me back.

Spice · #**11886** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 10:54 AM

zakk: ah, that must be difficult. iA khair. May Allah bless him with shifa and sabr for him and the entire family throughout the ordeal. ameen.

Afra: Ah, thats scary. Has he been tested? iA khair. May Allah bless him with good health and save him from any illness. ameen.

Asvi: That's great. It takes a lot to overcome your pride and do whats right in a situation like that. Im sure it was tough, may Allah reward you. Also, even if she doesnt call you back or isnt as friendly as youd like her to be- you'll know you did the right thing and that should be enough to put that to rest

Sumiyia: Sure, why not? Though it really depends on why she wants to borrow it. If its because shes having financial problems and cant afford to spend more or whatever, then lend it as sadaqa. Though whatever you do, make sure its not something that will tarnish you friendship in the long run

Also, I liked the ruby and diamonds ring. Its a powerful statement peice, as opposed to the pearl one.

Thejellymill: haha, dude, that sucks! You have to plan something else now

sally · #**11887** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:03 AM

duas for everyone going through hardships

remember fa inna ma'al usri yusra (verily with every hardship comes ease)

and to answer that one question someone posted, nope i wouldnt mind letting a friend borrow my wedding dress.

and finally
i wanna marry a guy who is nice and pious and extremely disciplined

discipline is so appealing. mA.

*sigh*

onetspvanilla · #**11888** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by sumiyia

question... would you let a friend borrow your wedding/valima outfit for her own wedding?

if it was a good friend asking, i'm sure she would have her reasons, and yes i'd definitely let her borrow it. to me, it's just an outfit.

zakk · #**11889** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:07 AM

I wouldn't mind either. I know how hard it is to get your hands on nice clothes, especially if your relatives have questionable tastes. It gets really hard sometimes! Especially for a wedding, I think it's nice if you're able to help someone feel like a princess on their wedding day. I remember for my nikkah I wanted a jhummar soooo badly and one of relatives (who had been married for a good 5-6 years already) absolutely refused to let me borrow hers .

Timbit · #**11890** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by zakk

I remember for my nikkah I wanted a jhummar soooo badly and one of relatives (who had been married for a good 5-6 years already) absolutely refused to let me borrow hers .

That's horrible.
People are odd.

Bruinrab · #**11891** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:14 AM

Lending jewelry for a wedding is one thing - it's fairly durable and too expensive for many people. But clothing? I'd be afraid that something would get spilled on it, it'd get ripped, or it would end up with armpit stains, or something like that. Then again, I have no sisters, so I've never had to share my clothes.

zzze · #**11892** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:18 AM

assalamu alaykum

one my friends bought the same wedding dress as me lol. She wasn't getting married at the time and maybe think she wanted to wear it as a party dress as the dress wasn't 'bling', but i think she'll end up wearing it. I think that's very similar to lending ur dress to somene

it'll look different on two different people, anyway.

ok i'm in pain

sally · #**11893** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by zakk

I remember for my nikkah I wanted a jhummar soooo badly and one of relatives (who had been married for a good 5-6 years already) absolutely refused to let me borrow hers .

that's sad.

if i could've let you borrow my jhummar then i wouldve.

fatima · #**11894** (**permalink**) 06-09-2008, 11:37 AM

what is a jhummar?