Ive realized that things which dont concern the family should be kept far away, school/friends/other stuff. Because theres really no use in letting that taint our relationship with the family- youd be surprised at how wuick the family picks up that you're stressed/depressed/whatever even when you try to conceal it, and it just isnt fair for them to have to deal with that which is essentially a cause of something that doesnt concern them.
We should be ever good to our parents and our siblings, and whomever else we consider a part of our 'family' structure. To simplify it, you dont have very long to spend with them to begin with.. you get married, move on, and I'd imagine things are never really the same. So yeah, they deserve to see and hear the best of us.
I always try to be the best sister/daughter/whatever I can be, but too often let other crap get in the way and come off as very unapproachable. And any effort which is moved by some worthless other feeling isnt strong enough to begin with.
Thats
not enough. Need to work harderrrrr iA.
