[flutterz]

okay, i'm finally caught up.

s all around...

[sumiyia]

SUGARBERRY - haha.. i heard this on the radio and thought of you YouTube - Blackstreet - Don`t leave me

[ChotooMotoo]

Whooo hooo!!!! Yesterday JcPenny catalog had a sale on baby stuff AND free shipping! I got the crib I wanted for $130 AND free shipping to my house. Now I don't have to worry about picking it up from the store, and hoping my car is big enough.

[flutterz]

reminders to self:

• making and keeping things simple definitely helps, alhumdulillah.
• it's still backbiting/slander if you're not mouthing it but typing it instead.
• and it's still backbiting/slander if it's about your parents, siblings, inlaws, friends, neighbors, roomies, coworkers... bottomline if they're not face-to-face with you while you're expressing something not-so-good about them, it's not right.
• if you must say/type something, try to be non-specific and be like "it sucks when some people behave like blah blah blah... etc.
• ultimately, everything happens because Allah (swt) wills it to happen... so turn to Him (inwards) instead of turing to/on people (outwards) unless you trust yourself not to trespass limits set by Him.
• it's ours to give people the benefit of the doubt, it's His to judge them.
• try to be more than your ego. people are people and will continue to be themselves. you can't change them... at least not quick enough for your liking. but you can change yourself, for the better, kinder, more patient... quicker than you think possible.
• when in doubt, take a deep breath and think beyond life and this world. think how relatively small a price to pay for a heavenly afterlife, inshaAllah.

so i've decided that i don't like traffic, and the stairs at work.
or perhaps i should say that it sucks how some cars (and drivers) behave on the road and how some stairs behave in ways that make your legs ache n make your RLS worse. and i can't take my advil PM cuz i don't have 8 hours unless i'm playing host to red. the rest of the time, i try for 4 hours before fajr and 4 hours after with dream/nightmare-infested sleep (hi zzze ). n that reminds me:

• if i ever run into the sandman, i'm gonna beat him up with my swiffer sweeper AND the toilet brush!

cuz i find it kinda ironic when in a DREAM you're telling someone that you might've IMAGINED the evil people lurking in your dark heavily-wooded backyard WHILE they're leering at you through the window.

[farah]

Originally Posted by flutterz

reminders to self:

• making and keeping things simple definitely helps, alhumdulillah.
• it's still backbiting/slander if you're not mouthing it but typing it instead.
• and it's still backbiting/slander if it's about your parents, siblings, inlaws, friends, neighbors, roomies, coworkers... bottomline if they're not face-to-face with you while you're expressing something not-so-good about them, it's not right.
• if you must say/type something, try to be non-specific and be like "it sucks when some people behave like blah blah blah... etc.
• ultimately, everything happens because Allah (swt) wills it to happen... so turn to Him (inwards) instead of turing to/on people (outwards) unless you trust yourself not to trespass limits set by Him.
• it's ours to give people the benefit of the doubt, it's His to judge them.
• try to be more than your ego. people are people and will continue to be themselves. you can't change them... at least not quick enough for your liking. but you can change yourself, for the better, kinder, more patient... quicker than you think possible.
• when in doubt, take a deep breath and think beyond life and this world. think how relatively small a price to pay for a heavenly afterlife, inshaAllah.

so i've decided that i don't like traffic, and the stairs at work.
or perhaps i should say that it sucks how some cars (and drivers) behave on the road and how some stairs behave in ways that make your legs ache n make your RLS worse. and i can't take my advil PM cuz i don't have 8 hours unless i'm playing host to red. the rest of the time, i try for 4 hours before fajr and 4 hours after with dream/nightmare-infested sleep (hi zzze ). n that reminds me:

• if i ever run into the sandman, i'm gonna beat him up with my swiffer sweeper AND the toilet brush!

cuz i find it kinda ironic when in a DREAM you're telling someone that you might've IMAGINED the evil people lurking in your dark heavily-wooded backyard WHILE they're leering at you through the window.

i missed you

[Sugarberry]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

SUGARBERRY - haha.. i heard this on the radio and thought of you YouTube - Blackstreet - Don`t leave me

hahahahah they totally played that at the concert.....and the Dj was like "everybody who was in the middle school in the 90's sing along!"
hahahaha

[ABCDGIRL]

IslamicTube.net : Flowers Are Red : Rashid & (small), Mohamed Bikha - Dawud - Flowers Are Red : Rashid & (small),Mohamed Bikha - Dawud - Islamic Videos


this is sooooooooo adorable

[displaced]

my kitty will be in the animal hospital until thursday because he's getting declawed. I miss him.

I want a kitty-hug

[sally]

Originally Posted by displaced

my kitty will be in the animal hospital until thursday because he's getting declawed. I miss him.

I want a kitty-hug

serves you right. i can't believe you.. why would you do that. INHUMANE.

i might cry.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by sally

serves you right. i can't believe you.. why would you do that. INHUMANE.

i might cry.

my parents said it was between that and finding him another home. he destroyed the furniture in the living room. I tried to teach him not to.

[new_muslimah]

I am soooo annoyed!!!!


There is this Muslim guy who is interested in me. He told his friends, my friends and basically anyone with ears of his interest in me. So now everytime I see one of his friends or mine, I am subjected to an hour long lecture about how great this guy is and how happy I'll be with him, how important marriage is and how I'm practically kaffir for not being interested in marriage.

I've started avoiding people cause it's gotten so bad. A friend of mine gave him my number and he started calling me all the time "just to say hello" and when I told him to stop, he started "texting me just to say hello"

I don't get it.....when you say no to Muslim guys, why do they automatically assume that you're confused, shy or playing hard to get. NO!!! I am perfectly lucid and I'm not confused. I'm just not into you!!! Why is everyone trying to get me married!!!!!!! Everywhere I go, I have to sit through aunties, uncles, everyone under the sun trying to get me married. Why is it as soon as you say salam to a Muslim brother, a week later he proposes? OMGGGGGG....Does salam mean "will you marry me" these days????? Alhamdulillah, I should be grateful and maybe when I'm 40 and wrinkled I'll want these proposals.....but when does EVERYTHING have to be about marriage and finding a husband ALL THE TIME!!!!!!!

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by new_muslimah

I am soooo annoyed!!!!


There is this Muslim guy who is interested in me. He told his friends, my friends and basically anyone with ears of his interest in me. So now everytime I see one of his friends or mine, I am subjected to an hour long lecture about how great this guy is and how happy I'll be with him, how important marriage is and how I'm practically kaffir for not being interested in marriage.

I've started avoiding people cause it's gotten so bad. A friend of mine gave him my number and he started calling me all the time "just to say hello" and when I told him to stop, he started "texting me just to say hello"

I don't get it.....when you say no to Muslim guys, why do they automatically assume that you're confused, shy or playing hard to get. NO!!! I am perfectly lucid and I'm not confused. I'm just not into you!!! Why is everyone trying to get me married!!!!!!! Everywhere I go, I have to sit through aunties, uncles, everyone under the sun trying to get me married. Why is it as soon as you say salam to a Muslim brother, a week later he proposes? OMGGGGGG....Does salam mean "will you marry me" these days????? Alhamdulillah, I should be grateful and maybe when I'm 40 and wrinkled I'll want these proposals.....but when does EVERYTHING have to be about marriage and finding a husband ALL THE TIME!!!!!!!

welcome to the desi-land. thats all i can say on this subject.

[ChotooMotoo]

Originally Posted by new_muslimah

Does salam mean "will you marry me" these days????? Alhamdulillah, I should be grateful and maybe when I'm 40 and wrinkled I'll want these proposals.....but when does EVERYTHING have to be about marriage and finding a husband ALL THE TIME!!!!!!!

Male interpretation of female greeting:
Hi = you are cute, lets be haram and date
Salam = I'm interested in marrying you, please call me so I can set up a meeting with my parents
Salam Alaikum = lets start planning our wedding now
As-salaam alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh = OMG I think I'm gunna wet myself I'm so hot for you, and wanna jump into your pants RIGHT NOW!!! Someone call the imam IMEDIATELY before I commit zina with you!

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In other news, I had a meeting with my major professor today. Looks like I'm only going to be going half-time fall semester. I should be grateful, becuase inshallah that means they will pay me SOMETHING. However, the reduction in my pay means that I will have to apply for a student loan to cover the extra expenses of baby etc.

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by ChotooMotoo

Male interpretation of female greeting:
Hi = you are cute, lets be haram and date
Salam = I'm interested in marrying you, please call me so I can set up a meeting with my parents
Salam Alaikum = lets start planning our wedding now
As-salaam alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh = OMG I think I'm gunna we myself I'm so hot for you, and wanna jump into your pants RIGHT NOW!!! Someone call the imam IMEDIATELY before I commit zina with you!

I like my version better. thankyouverymuch.

aww