[Spice]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

..... WOW.

this middle eastern creepy weirdo freaking followed me all over san diego today. followed me onto the trolley, got on and off the same stops like TWICE, sat there staring at me the entire time, and on one of the trolleys that were full, he kept trying to sit next to me. i wanted to punch him in the face.

The same guy from the parking lot?
okay dude, You need to do something about it. Does your husband know? For all you know he could be some type of rapist or whatever.
GET ON AND DO SOMETHING! ASAP.

[Purple_alien]

My best friend was supposed to go to tunisia yesterday but the people at the airport wouldn't let her travel with a one-way ticket. (she was making a semi-permanent move to be with her husband) Anyway, she came back yesterday and has been acting really *****y. I was so close to driving to her house to slap her earlier, but I had a final. I know she is a mean, rude chick, but she has been extra moody lately. She has been saying stuff that pisses me off, like really sick stuff. again, she wants to get slapped for real. I just feel bad for her because she married a guy so he can stay in the country and now she kinda fell for him. it is so sad

[sumiyia]

Originally Posted by Spice

The same guy from the parking lot?
okay dude, You need to do something about it. Does your husband know? For all you know he could be some type of rapist or whatever.
GET ON AND DO SOMETHING! ASAP.

no the parking lot guy was different... there was a lot of security on the trolley so he didn't try to do anything more thank god... ugh! it was so sick though! made me want to wear a burqa or something...

[the_only_one]

thanks salika, displaced, shsh for your valueable input.

knowing myself i know i'll find it irritating to have to pop a pill or two EVERY night. i dont know if ill spend the nights at the hotel room and dont want to carry a handbag either hence, convenience by far is a big factor in my case..i really wanna make most out of this blessing and hate to divulge into minor worries like that..

since my cycle starts right around that time of the month when the trip is planned. i'll ask my doc for eitherthe patch+depo shot..or heavy dose of the bc. hate to ruin the trip for myself..i'll make sure she gives me something in the upper tolerance levels..afterall i dont wanna mess up my endocrine system and end up as a hybrid btwn + ...now that would be astaghfirullah..

btw shsh thanks for the wakeup call.:-flower:

inshaAllah khair and i'll sure to remember fph ladies in my du3as. iA

sorry for those who're having a bad day. and have fun at ur trip asvi.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

thanks salika, displaced, shsh for your valueable input.

knowing myself i know i'll find it irritating to have to pop a pill or two EVERY night. i dont know if ill spent my nights the hotel room and i dont want to carry a handbag either hence, convenience by far is a big factor in my case..i really wanna make most out of this blessing and hate to divulge into minor worries like that..

since my cycle starts right around that time of the month when the trip is planned. i'll make ask doc either for the patch+depo shot..or heavy dose of the bc. i dont wanna take a chance and ruin the trip for myself..i'll make sure she gives me something in the lower range of the upper tolerance intake..afterall i dont wanna mess up my endocrine system and end up as a hybrid btwn + ...now that would be astaghfirullah..

btw shsh thanks for the wakeup call.:-flower:

inshaAllah khair and i'll sure to remember fph ladies in my du3as. iA

sorry for those who're having a bad day. and have fun at ur trip asvi.

from what I know about the depo shot is that it's a crapshoot as to what you'll end up with...you can have no period or you can bleed randomly i.e. you always have to be prepared because there is no real cycle. should you be one of the unlucky women who have the side effects (google them, I can't remember) you're pretty much stuck because there's no way to reverse the shot.

I wouldn't risk it.

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by displaced

from what I know about the depo shot is that it's a crapshoot as to what you'll end up with...you can have no period or you can bleed randomly i.e. you always have to be prepared because there is no real cycle. should you be one of the unlucky women who have the side effects (google them, I can't remember) you're pretty much stuck because there's no way to reverse the shot.

I wouldn't risk it.

i googled it long before..the side effects weren't bad as you make it sound? (may be i didnt stumble over that particular piece of information?) allahu 3alim.

but again..the doc always exaggerate the risks over the benefit?

[the_only_one]

on a side note: I know i'll BE THE BEST CANDIDATE FOR THE EPIDURAL STUFF. i'd even ask for the heavy dose..AND at the same time i'll be worried for the SIDE EFFECTS...

gosh i am such a fussy wuss.

[displaced]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

i googled it long before..the side effects weren't bad as you make it sound? (may be i didnt stumble over that particular piece of information?) allahu 3alim.

but again..the doc always exaggerate the risks over the benefit?

increased hair on the face or body?

[Nabisco007]

Originally Posted by sumiyia

..... WOW.

this middle eastern creepy weirdo freaking followed me all over san diego today. followed me onto the trolley, got on and off the same stops like TWICE, sat there staring at me the entire time, and on one of the trolleys that were full, he kept trying to sit next to me. i wanted to punch him in the face.

that's really scary actually

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by displaced

increased hair on the face or body?

depends on the type of BC? i dont know much..all i know high levels of estrogen and progesterone messes you up....it'd make sense to become overall hairy..not just at a particular area...

[Salika]

I never had any problems with hairiness while I was on BC, in fact my body funtioned wonderfully. When I got off it is when all the problems began (but I don't think the pills caused the problems, I think it's just genes)... so now I'm back on it hoping it'll put thinks back in place

[the_only_one]

i hate being a girl at the moment..

thanks. (no it has nothing to do with our BC convo...)

[Salika]

Originally Posted by the_only_one

i hate being a girl at the moment..

thanks. (no it has nothing to do with our BC convo...)

Being a girl is complicated....

[the_only_one]

Originally Posted by Salika

Being a girl is complicated....

and we dont even invite trouble...

it just follows us...