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04-17-2008, 11:30 PM
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unfortunately, that's not really possible with all my extended in-laws in the area. alhumdulillah, nobody minds if I duck into my room to take a break... "feeding the baby". 
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04-18-2008, 12:19 AM
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Alhamdulilah. sigh.
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04-18-2008, 02:39 AM
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duaas for your uncle sumiyia
inshallah khair
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04-18-2008, 07:12 AM
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duaas for your uncle sumiyia
inshallah khair
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Ameen. Any updates yet?
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thanks ladies... no updates yet... my dad is pretty upset and he can't fly back to pakistan at the moment so he's feeling even worse.. 
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04-18-2008, 10:22 AM
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thanks ladies... no updates yet... my dad is pretty upset and he can't fly back to pakistan at the moment so he's feeling even worse.. 
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04-18-2008, 10:53 AM
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The Prophet (p.b.u.h. ) said: "Every child bonds to his/her 'Aqeeqah, (i.e. his dutifulness to parents and him being protected by Allaah and blessed is subject to his parents, slaughtering) which should be done on the seventh day (after the birth), and on that day he (she) should be named and his (her) hair should be shaved off." [Abu Daawood]
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So, how do you do slaughtering here? SOme of the meat has to go to the poor, but our community doesn't have that kind of poor people (who are so poor that they really need food and such), and lambs are really difficult to come by. My husband is thinking of having the slaughter done back home, rather than locally.
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 fphers!
I spent last night with 3 other fphers in my room rolling cakeballs and applying henna. holllaaa
tonight is my mehendi. tomorrow is my shaadi iA iA. i didnt get sick, alh. my clothes fit. alh. where have tons of sheer maal in my house. alh.
thank you all for your duas  may Allah swt bless you all with long, happy, and healthy lives full of good deeds.
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Yesterday my sister and I got into an argument....and she was like " you should be the better person!"
and im like I dont see anything wrong with treating people the way they treat you.
My personal belief the nicer you are to people , the more they feel like they have a license to walk all over you...and take advantage of you....which is not cool in my books.
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for the record, i disagree. i may not always be the better person but if we look at the seerah of the Rasul, I think it's necessary for us to try our best to be the better person.
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unfortunately, that's not really possible with all my extended in-laws in the area. alhumdulillah, nobody minds if I duck into my room to take a break... "feeding the baby". 
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ok i'm sorry... can you imagine sending out a mass message that you don't want any visitors for a month? HAHAHA! The drama that would ensue. Might as well just get it over with and duck out a lot iA. If I lived by you, I'd visit. I'd demand chai too. But I'd bring you cakeballs.
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thanks ladies... no updates yet... my dad is pretty upset and he can't fly back to pakistan at the moment so he's feeling even worse.. 
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May Allah (swt) grant him shifa and a speedy recovery, iA.
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 fphers!
I spent last night with 3 other fphers in my room rolling cakeballs and applying henna. holllaaa
tonight is my mehendi. tomorrow is my shaadi iA iA. i didnt get sick, alh. my clothes fit. alh. where have tons of sheer maal in my house. alh.
thank you all for your duas  may Allah swt bless you all with long, happy, and healthy lives full of good deeds.
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have fun! May Allah (swt) grant you and your spouse happiness for years to come, iA 
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. But I'd bring you cakeballs.
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They have this lovely service these days. It's called THE U.S. POSTAL SERVICE. I'll give you a week to get out of the shaadi schedule, thanks.
Chotoo, we had the slaughter done in Pakistan.
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04-18-2008, 12:57 PM
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somebody feed the hungry pregnant lady!
too bad there's no one else home.
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04-18-2008, 01:32 PM
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is it true that you shouldn't exfoliate your face if you have acne??
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is it true that you shouldn't exfoliate your face if you have acne??
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Just dont get too vigorous and start popping pimples. you dont want the pimple juice stuff from the pimples all over your face. and if you do get too crazy-lady on them and start scrubbing/popping/spreading your pimple juice from one pimple will take the spot of another pimples juice socket and stuff, its going to be eid on your face!
OMG THATS LIKE PIMPLES VISITING EACH OTHER!
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